Ruta B.

As soon as women see such a headline, they become upset and start thinking: Why should we keep them? If they want to flee, let them go wherever they want …

Usually, such women neither know themselves nor men at all, but they want to scream out loud that they’re not going to try anything for men because they have been trying hard all their lives and are left unappreciated.

Unfortunately, women who think this way do not want to study the art of relationships. And this is really stupid.

We live in a world full of wonderful things, so it’s really stupid to prevent yourself from taking the path to happiness or a beautiful long-term relationship.

So, why is it worth it to get men interested?

What if a writer said “I don’t care if anyone’s going to read it. Let it be boring and monotonous …” when they wrote a book?

 Or the film director said “What difference does it make? It’s nonsense to keep a viewer interested …”?

Unfortunately, the same rules apply to relationships with men …

Now think about how interested you are when reading a good book. It’s intriguing and engaging.

You really want to go to sleep, but you can’t stop reading. You really want to find out what’s on the next page!

To make someone this interested is truly an art, and any woman can learn this.

Therefore, it’s time to take a look at ourselves and ask:

Am I an interesting woman?

What do I know about men?

(Don’t you ever say you know them as the back of your hand, as we’re going to prove it to you that this is not true …)

A woman who wants to establish or maintain a good relationship with her husband should get him interested—there’s NO other way.

A woman who wants to establish or maintain a good relationship with her husband should get him interested—there’s NO other way.

Personal experience:
I have been studying various relationships between men and women for almost 20 years. I have watched a lot of couples, listened to their stories in psychological group meetings, and I have fostered various types of relationships, which made me realize what is worth and not worth doing to men.

… and that’s why I’m willing to share my findings and psychological tricks that help seduce a man or bring back the interest in a relationship that has gone cold.

At the age of 15, I started working as a model and traveling the world. I lived in Los Angeles for 11 years and enjoyed the attention of men.

During the first thirty years of my life, I didn’t have any deep or sincere relationship with a man (but I got a daughter).

I have seduced a lot of old and young millionaires (I married one), and I can honestly say I know a lot of feminine tricks to get a man interested.

I really got a lot of attention from men. Unfortunately, I did not know what to do with it.

I felt so insecure that I would run away from them rather than develop something serious between us.

I then got tired of playing with men and longed for a real relationship.

Therefore, for the past 10 years, I have been learning about myself and about creating long-term relationships. (By the way, I want to add that I do not feel like an expert in this field. Even at this level, I still sometimes feel like I cannot do anything, and I feel weak, but we’ll talk about this another time …)

I decided to write this article because, in my opinion, every wise woman needs to understand what she wants and to responsibly build relationships.

There is nothing wrong with using our appearance to manipulate men from time to time. But it’s just the tip of the iceberg compared to what a woman can do …

Therefore, I’d like to talk about how to get a man really interested so that he would fall head over heels for you …

• SECRET: a man chooses a woman based on how he feels with her

Whatever we do to impress him with our looks, intellect, or other things, it is all worthless if a man won’t feel special when he’s with you.

It’s not the woman that is most important to him but how he feels when he’s with her. Most men simply rely on the feelings they experience when they are next to a woman.

Therefore, if you want to be an attractive woman and attract a man, you have to take a look at the atmosphere you’re creating around yourself.

For example, I think my secret is …

… taking care of my inner state: I perform feminine practice and meditate. That’s why I can understand myself and other people.

When a man gets close to me, I can ‘turn on’ my femininity (attention, tenderness, acceptance, admiration of him, faith in his strength, etc.).

When he’s with me, he feels strong and masculine.

I can include him in my space (any woman can learn this while using some practices and meditation), and he will feel much better with me than without me.

That’s why he will want to come back to me.

Of course, the man is attracted to our appearance and other outer qualities at first, but the feelings that he experiences when he’s with us make him stay and come back to us.

I just recently talked to a woman who told me that her husband had left her.

She could not figure out what had happened.

The woman said they were a great couple. Their neighbors and friends considered them an exemplary family …

However, her husband left her for another woman—because she was not paying attention to his needs; she only cared about creating a perfect picture, and the man was suffocating.

His needs were completely different. Unfortunately, they remained unheard and unnoticed …

After a couple of years, he met a woman that made him feel much better … this man was torn between his family and the new found love (which was a simple woman, but he felt much better with her than with his wife), and he finally left.

It perfectly illustrates the secret of the relationships described above …

It is important for a man, and for all of us—the atmosphere our partner is creating, in which we could bloom. And if we only stick to our schedule (we cook, we clean and organize leisure time), we tend to overlook the fact that the person next to us is underestimated as well as his needs, and he feels bad when he’s with us …

• SECRET: it is impossible to keep a man interested with two main manipulative tricks that almost all of us have learned from our mothers and grandmothers

Unfortunately, most of us try to keep our husband’s interest in two ways:

1. We keep convincing men that they would be lost without us.

It somewhat sounds like this: “Well, who’s going to look at you? Who will take care of you? You will be lost without me …”

The negative programming is very strong—especially if it’s repeated all the time (constant dropping wears away a stone).

In a couple of years, a man becomes a pet poodle who is afraid of losing his mistress (clever men leave such women, but there are some who choose such lives themselves).

Unfortunately, a woman will never be happy with such a man, and she will never glow …

Therefore, if you’re using this technique at home, it’s time to stop it because you will hurt yourself.

2. Another way is playing a victim (i.e., constantly showing your weakness and making another person feel guilty).

This negative programming sounds like this: “I cannot live without you. I would be lost without you …”

Or: “I was staying at home all evening because you didn’t tell me when you’re getting home, and I was worried. I am so sad when you’re not with me …”

Such women are not nice—and not cool.

And if something inside of you just told you that you’re using one of these techniques, stop it right now and start acting differently!

Personal experience:

I had relied on the secrets to relationships that are as old as my grandmother until I finally learned that there are other ways to keep a man interested.

And only now, at 39, have I realized that there should be a woman next to a man and not a little girl manipulating him with guilt and weakness.

So, today, we’re building our dreams together. We’re creating common goals and visions. We’re improving our mutual communication and sex life.

We take great care of our inner state; we’re trying to intrigue each other, and we’re trying to find out what is important to us individually and as a couple, and we’re also learning to create an atmosphere for each other where we could grow wings.

Therefore, I suggest you take some time and get to know the atmosphere that you’re creating in your relationship. Take some time to realize your dreams and find some common goals with your partner.

After all, it’s not the children that connect the couple; it’s the common dreams and visions.

• SECRET: do not ever think that you know your husband as the back of your hand

Most women often say they know their husbands very well.

But in most cases, this is just one more limitation. In saying so, we lose the opportunity to get another person (who is better) and to reveal the deeper layers of a relationship between a man and a woman.

We almost do not know ourselves, so how can we know our partners this well?

It’s only natural to keep exploring each other for life and constantly finding new things.

I have noticed before that as soon as I find something new in myself, I look at my partner in a different way as well. As soon as I become more open and loving, he turns his new side to me. As soon as I finish playing the games of guilt, some new sides to our relationship open up …

I have no idea where we’ll be within a year, what emotional bonds we will create, and what we will achieve together as a couple, and this is really interesting to me …

• SECRET: three years later, your sexual life is just beginning

I get angry when I read women’s letters saying: “Well, a couple of years have passed; the attraction has disappeared … and there’s nothing I can do about it.”

Parents, psychologists, and French writers have greatly contributed to this, having published the book “Love lasts three years”, which has become a bestseller.

That is completely absurd.

After three years, when this on-again, off-again phase ends, we have this opportunity to really get to know and feel each other.

That was a real discovery for me. When we attended seminars, we realized that after a few years, this exhausting and emotional sex ends, but the couple gets the opportunity to create a deep and intimate relationship.

The thing is, we do not know how to do this.

I will reveal the techniques that we use in our sex life in the next article. I’m sure that while reading it, your heart will tell you it’s the absolute truth …

But to make it short …

It turns out that our men do not know how to make love to women; they do everything too fast.

And we, women, do not know how to tell them that it’s unpleasant for us, and we keep pretending.

However, it’s silly to expect men to give us pleasure if we do not know ourselves—what we like. (The practice “THE INTIMATE SECRET” can help you study your body.)

So, after three years, our body gets tired, the intimate area becomes insensitive because men are unable to awaken our intimate spots and wait until our body opens.

Of course, we often do not know what turns us on. That’s why we don’t want to have sex anymore.

As if our body would say: “Yes, I wanted love, pleasure, and to have a connection, but I failed to find something deep, so I’m better off doing nothing at all.”

Later on, the body starts to become ill (in an attempt to defend itself), and this is how we ruin our sex life (out of ignorance).

If you suffer from a variety of intimate problems (endometriosis, uterine fibroids, ovarian cysts, menstrual disorders, conception problems, etc.), Nephrite Egg for Chocolate Soul can help you here.

It’s just a MAGICAL secret to intimate health, beauty, and youth, which was revealed 5000 years ago, and you can make use of it as well.

We can also have a great sex life.

I will reveal a couple of things in the next article, and I will invite women to start creating a joyful sex life.

I used to think that if the relationship gets cold, I have to stimulate them and put more external efforts. And I did: various sexy clothes, stimulating toys, ideas to bring the third person into bed, etc.

I am so glad that I finally realized that you shouldn’t look for love on the outside …

Have you ever thought that we, women, tend to wear masks in bed since we feel very vulnerable? But if we learned to really open up and to accept a man into our body with love and true longing, we would be much more interesting to men than wearing latex outfits or push-up bras.

There are great trainings nowadays where we can better learn about our body as well as our partner’s.

We must dare to be real and to talk to men gently and in a non-offensive way about what we like …

It is for us to choose.

Your sex life can be much better in 15 years than it was within the first years spent together.

So it’s possible to keep a man interested in many ways. That’s why we invite you to improve yourself, to reveal your femininity, and to learn about new areas of relationships.

Your task today is to start creating an atmosphere around yourself that would make you and the people around you feel good (this is the real charm of a woman).

We also encourage you to explore whether you’re using two manipulative techniques (“he will be lost without me” or “I will be lost without him”) and to get up on your feet while doing the practices, to discover the self-confident woman inside of you that any man can be proud of.

We also suggest that you get rid of the idea: I know my husband as the back of my hand. You can always go deeper and become interesting to yourself. You can discover a lot of interesting relationship aspects while exploring yourself …

Do not, in any way, believe that the attraction between a man and a woman disappears after a couple of years. It is only then that the real journey to the intimate world of a man and a woman begins. We just need to open it if we want to feel the magic between a man and a woman.

Change your attitude toward your body; get to know the truly exciting woman’s sexual world. You can get help from the sexual practices The Magic of Sexuality, The Intimate Secret, and The Magical Jade Egg or many articles on this topic on the Chocolate Soul website.

It doesn’t matter at all at what point you are right now … You can experience something wonderful within a week; just open yourself to this opportunity ..

Ruta Banioni, chocolate4soul.com

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Darling, if you want to stay young, beautiful, and desirable, you have to read this article!

This article is meant for WOMEN OF ANY AGE, so don’t say “This is meant just for the young,” since it’s not true! (We’ll talk about this later.)

I’ll talk about the 4 STEPS I know are really working, which I follow every day. (I could easily call them my 4 SECRETS to beauty.)

If you could take at least a few steps, I can guarantee you that it will be enough for you to look better than any other woman of your age.

As the years go by, they bring a lot of joy to most of us, but unfortunately …

Most women—as young as from 25-years-old—think it’s over for them, not to mention the 40-year-olds …

“Sex is not for me; it’s not going to work out with my husband. You cannot stop the time; I won’t have any children. It’s too late; I’ll die single …” And other nonsense …

It really hurts me because I know it’s not true.

The power of autosuggestion is enormous. I’m convinced that you need not tell yourself things that make no sense. Women often tell themselves (and others around them) all those old phrases—they stop living at 35.

That is why I want to show you an entirely different approach to a woman’s age and share my opinion on aging.

Why am I inspired to talk about this?

First of all, I have a wonderful mother who helped me form a completely different opinion about a woman’s age.

She’s 65, and she’s unstoppable—she’s currently attending the University of the Third Age; she exercises, often meets up with her friends, wears a lot of colorful clothes, and performs feminine practices that help boost her self-confidence and health.

My parents go sailing during the weekends and travel several times a year. Do you think this is exclusively peculiar to young and rich people only? Not at all!

I also have a grandmother who’s 97 now, and when we speak on the phone, she always tells me about her morning exercises and cold showers.

If I don’t visit her for a longer period, she calls me and tells me, “I want to do something … I’m not old yet, Ruta …”

My grandmother does her eyebrows every morning, wears a good perfume, and laughs a lot … she has shiny eyes and enjoys life!

Nobody could ever convince her that she is old and sick.

My grandmother is enjoying her new hip joints and feels happy every day. She reads all the latest literature and tells me about the discoveries of a healthy diet and other interesting facts. (Well, OK, not always.)

I also think that aging (I’m 39 right now) is beneficial to me, and I feel much more beautiful and energetic than I ever was before. Here are all my secrets …

Let’s talk about how women prevent themselves from enjoying life.

This article is meant for women of all ages. It’s never too late—neither is it too early—to care for your beauty as well as your inner state.

Here are some simple tips that will help you stay young, fresh and charming for the rest of your life:

• To stay young, you have to pay more attention to yourself

Enough of those stories that we have to serve others, spend the most beautiful years of our life taking care of home …

STOP all of this nonsense. Don’t talk or think about it, neither should you even give in to this ‘brainwashing.’

We’re all taught to forget about ourselves and sacrifice ourselves for others.

You might find this article controversial at first, but this is just because our mothers and grandmothers—who have survived poverty, plague, and war—have taught us this way …

Times have changed, yet we continue living under the outdated laws.

However, more and more women have started caring for themselves, revealing their femininity and other qualities that give them the chance to be happier and more attractive.

So it’s up to you whether you want to be one of them (the happy ones) or stick to the old beliefs that prevent you from becoming happy.

We have to realize that we have been seeking approval from outside and from our husbands for many years (and we will most probably continue doing this, but the situation must change—at least a little).

Half of my life, I felt guilty of other people’s problems. For many years, I was trying to figure out how best to meet a man’s needs. I would spend half the day taking care of other people’s needs and trying to see myself as a good person.

I would continuously worry whether my husband would be happy with the dinner I made for him, if he would notice I looked nice, whether he won’t get angry, etc.

All of my attention was directed toward others—what they might think, what they might say or do, etc.

Even though my grandmother used to say “I wouldn’t have lived this long (90 years+), Ruta, if I had worried about others this much!” And she’s right.

I’m in no way saying that we should now stop caring for our loved ones. Rather, what the above means is that from now on, we should pay more attention to ourselves and our needs.

So let’s ask ourselves today, “Do I really want that?” And let’s learn to say ‘no’ in a polite and transparent manner if we feel we are sacrificing ourselves.

For example, my mother used to cook all day, clean the house, and then she would come to my house and watch her granddaughter; she would then go shopping for groceries, visit her mother, and go to bed feeling exhausted.

My mother has now learned to say ‘no’ to us and ‘yes’ to herself. And the most interesting thing is that we now love her even more, and we appreciate her help much more than before.

So, darling, the world will not really end if you begin taking care of ‘your beloved self.’

• You must continuously improve yourself and keep up with the current times

We have to look for new things that we like and never imagine that we know everything. Life is very diverse, and if you think you know everything, it's your choice—and if you keep thinking like this, you will grow old very soon.

If you convince the world that mind and wisdom are not necessary to you, you will most probably come down with Alzheimer's—and then your quick aging sets in...

It is, therefore, necessary to look for activities that make you happy—this changes your life completely. A woman can then continually improve herself, realize herself, and discover new things.

For example, right now, I'm learning about makeup, and it really gives me a lot of joy.

I even think that it might be my future career. Sometimes I imagine how perfectly I could master this art of beauty ... I'm totally unsure where life will take me. I'm always interested in new ideas; I never cry about the times that have changed, and so on. I immerse myself in the innovations and feel young and viable ...

You have probably heard about dementia and other worrying diseases ... The best way to protect yourself from these things is by prevention—beginning from now!

You have to show the universe that you need your mind.

Exercise a lot; show the world and the universe that you need healthy joints and back because you're always looking ahead and have big plans! It works miracles! This is an incredible engine of youth!

Keep up with the world—Facebook, Instagram, fashion, interesting websites, Skype, etc. Go hand-in-hand with the world.

Sometimes women love to long for the good old times and criticize the present. Of course you can continue doing this, but now you probably understand that it doesn't bring anything good to you.

It's just one more thing that will add a few years and make you even older. You have to change with the era, be open to innovation, and accept challenges.

Challenge your mind; learn a new foreign language; get to know the technologies; don't just sit there worrying that the world lives on the Internet now; find out how the phones and computers work!

Challenge yourself and make your mind find solutions.

• You have to take care of your beauty, health, and hygiene

Choose the right way of life today.

Perfect teeth, glamorous hair, an intimate area that's well taken care of (you can read more about the intimate health here!) and a fragrant and flexible body tell the world—and you—that you consider yourself a charming woman.

If you want to stay young and beautiful, you have to change your lifestyle today.

Beauty is not only a physical but also a mental state. Dress in beautiful clothes and do not save money for your beauty.

If you sweat a lot, then take a shower more often, find ways to deal with it, and so on. A woman cannot afford to look untidy these days; it's like writing on your forehead: "I'm invisible; don't look at me and don't touch me!"

Wear nice underwear and get at least a few good quality clothes and accessories. All of these things have a significant influence on a woman's inner perception of herself.

I will never forget when I worked on a cruise ship. Back then, I used to meet a lot of older Americans and Europeans. I just couldn't take my eyes off them. The women would glow with their beauty, luxury, great manners; they would wear sailor-like blouses and blue or white pants ... they would wear ‘Chanel’ perfume or smell of coffee ... Just delightful!

Another thing worth taking care of is your weight.

Keep your weight as stable as possible and as best suited to you.

Extra weight makes you look older. When a woman is overweight, she looks old. Of course you can argue that plus size women have fewer wrinkles, etc., but actually, they do not look young.

You probably know a woman who is overweight, and her age is hard to tell—she might be 28 or 48—so it's really important to control what we eat.

If you are constantly gaining weight, you have to learn about the psychological reasons behind this, and after dealing with them, you can easily lose weight.

Being too skinny is also useless. Just discover your ideal weight and try to maintain it. You don't have to overdo it with sports too.

I've noticed that women who work out a lot often have beautiful bottom or back muscles, but for some reason, the faces of women who lift a lot of weights seem to age faster, and they become more masculine.

So watch yourself and look for sports that give you more self-confidence.

• You need to be responsible for your inner state

Another thing that makes a woman age very quickly is anger and sorrow.

Quite often in the city, you see a woman you might consider beautiful but has got this wrinkle of anger or deep sorrow.

So, if you feel that you are being hit by depression, jealousy, or the feeling of constant anger and dissatisfaction, do not let it stay.

Seek for help, go and see a psychologist, but do not let it accumulate for a long time. A constantly sad woman soon starts looking like a bulldog—half of her face surrenders to gravity, and eventually, her countenance becomes sad ...

Also, feminine practices can be of great help. Here are some of our most popular practices:

• “The Magic of Sexuality: Beautiful and Unforgettable”
• THE INTIMATE SECRET: How to bring back health, passion, and pleasure to your sexual area?

Awaken the happy woman inside of you and take care of yourself ... take care of your inner hygiene.

The End

Choose some of the things that seem closest to your heart and start today. Remove all the garbage from your closet and get yourself some fresh clothes—which will make you feel young and vibrant!

Yes, yes, you're worth it! You could be walking down the street and holding everyone spellbound. You can start living differently today.

Ruta

P.S. The ability to stay young and beautiful is something that can be learned.

Why don't you start today with the information provided here? Or maybe you would like to add something? What helps you stay young and alive? Your experience, as well as opinion, is very important to us. We look forward to receiving your emails and comments.

P.P.S. Another thing that is very important for a woman is a VIBRANT SEXUAL AREA. We have already spoken about this in the previous articles. We recommend reading the secret to intimate health, beauty, and youth that was revealed in China 5000 years ago ...

IT'S IMPORTANT to every woman constantly suffering from various intimate problems as well as women who don't feel any pleasure during sex or are afraid of aging too soon and becoming boring to their husbands and other men as well ...Read more ...

3 MAIN TYPES OF MEN, which every smart woman must know, will be revealed in this valuable article.

These 3 types will reveal some important secrets about men … and even more important things about the women who choose such men!

Darling, welcome to the feminine world of Chocolate Soul—where spirituality is combined with sexuality, love, and luxury!

It’s very likely that in the middle of reading of this article, you’ll want to show it to your husband, saying, “LOOK… IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU! WHY CAN’T YOU BE ANY DIFFERENT?!” But don’t rush.

Wait until the end! At first, you may think that the purpose of this article is to discredit men. Absolutely not!

The first part of the article may seem disturbing or unpleasant, but when you face the truth, it will be much easier to understand HOW TO BECOME A WOMAN WHO FEELS GOOD ABOUT HERSELF AND WHO MAKES MEN DREAM ABOUT BEING WITH HER.

Share this article with your friends! Let the ‘Chocolate Soul’ circle of women grow and expand every day!

So, here we go: MEN WHO ARE MINUSES, ZEROES, AND PLUSES …

The 1st type OF MEN: THE ‘MINUSES’

What are the qualities of such men? The ‘Minuses’ and how to recognize them

The men in this category have an extremely unstable nervous system and often do not realize what is going on with them. You can expect anything from such a man: he might come back home drunk, hit a woman, ask for forgiveness and finally suggest having sex as a natural finale to that evening.

Such men (being unaware) are mad at their mothers and all the women in the world, and they’re trying to avenge them for the lack of love they experienced in their childhood.

Even if a ‘minus’ type of man meets a wonderful woman, he sees her through the filter of an ‘unloving mother.’

This means that he has this unconscious attitude: if the first woman in his life did not give him any love or attention, he only sees ‘no-love’ in his current relationship, and most often, he only concentrates on facts that prove this, and he feels like all the women should be punished and not loved.

And it doesn’t matter how a woman who lives with such a man is acting; he only sees a distorted picture and interprets any action as humiliation, danger, betrayal, and insecurity.

What types of women eventually end up with the ‘minus’ type of men?

Women living with the ‘minus’ type of men feel very insecure. They don’t know when they will have to flee, protect their children, or to pack up their bags and move in with their parents.

It negatively affects their nervous system, and after living with a “minus” type of man, there are two ways a woman can go:

THE FIRST ONE  – depression, total loss of oneself, alcoholism, or serious illnesses leading to self-destruction.

THE SECOND ONE a woman who decides to leave her husband and all this torture.

This option is also possible, but the woman must be extremely strong. Then the woman decides to quit this game of ‘tyrant and victim,’ and in a couple of years, she recovers and changes her life completely.

So …

▲ Women living with the ‘minus’ type of men have extremely low self-esteem, and they do not love themselves at all.

▲ They do not think they’re worthy of love, and they have grown to believe that this is their destiny.

▲ Such a woman is usually scared, full of childhood fears and insecurities.

▲ In most cases, a woman who can handle this drama of living with a ‘minus’ type of man comes from a family where her father or her stepfather was abusing her. That way, the first man in her life has formed this acceptable limit and attitude toward her and how she will be treated in the future.

In this case, a psychologist, psychotherapist, individual or group therapy is needed because the woman needs to work hard on herself if she wants to attract other types of men.

‘Women saviors’

There’s a category of women, the so-called WOMEN SAVIORS, who are ‘wearing’ these altruistic masks, and even though it’s hurtful and tiring, they keep saying that they “need to save him …” The future of such women is filled with adrenaline, then depression, and eventually oncologic or heart diseases.

Next, we will discuss the ZERO type of men (it’s the majority of men; most of us will recognize episodes from our own lives here).

The 2nd type of men: THE ‘ZEROES’

To make it even more fun and easy to identify what type of man you’re with, we will split the ZEROES into several fun categories.

THE 1ST CATEGORY OF THE ZERO TYPE OF MEN:THE ‘MAMA'S BOY.’ How do you recognize them?

You have been living with him for many years now, but his mother gets in the way. There’s not a day goes by without him mentioning his mother's name. When such a man eats soup you made, he can unexpectedly utter: "You’re such a good cook; you cook just like my mother!" or worse, "You can't really cook like my mother does …"

When living with such a man, you can constantly feel his mother’s presence, even if she lives 300 kilometers away. You can even sometimes feel that there's an invisible phantom of his mother standing in your bedroom.

Why do women choose
‘mama's boys’?

Such a woman has a low self-esteem and is often ‘competing’ with her husband's mother.

The competition and intrigue take over her thoughts, and she has something to complain about and gossip with her friends.

This performance can last for years, and it may end only when a woman deliberately decides to quit this ‘game’ and gets interested in loving herself and her self-esteem.

THE 2ND CATEGORY OF THE ZERO TYPE OF MEN:
THE ‘IMPRISONERS.’ How do you recognize them?

An ‘imprisoner’ is a type of man a woman can live with quite comfortably, but she cannot develop and thrive.

An ‘imprisoner’ type of man creates and maintains such an environment where neither himself nor his woman can grow. He does what is convenient and usual to him. As soon as a woman starts talking about her needs, about change or tries to ‘spread her wings,’ such a man ‘clips her wings’ while using certain phrases.

They usually sound like this: "Oh, you've read this nonsense again"; "Come on; don't be silly"; "You're strong; you'll figure it out."

Such a man has loads of ‘damaging ammunition’ and uses it every time the woman tries to escape the ‘comfort zone.’

Why do women choose the imprisoning men?

Living with an ‘imprisoner’ is quite safe. There's as little dynamics in such a relationship as there is joy. But this relationship gives the woman security and reliability.

Sometimes women decide to ‘free themselves,’ but they face their fears and do not dare to take this step.

Women try to break up with their imprisoners 3−5 times, but they keep coming back.

This proves that in order to change something in real life, you have to start from changing your inner state. If you change something on your outside, sooner or later, you will get back to where you started.

THE 3RD CATEGORY OF ZERO TYPE OF MEN:
THE ‘WEAK MEN.’
How do you recognize them?

These are the weak men that are looking for their mothers in women.

Weak men do not initiate anything. They are stuck in their teenage years, approximately between 15−18, and they haven't really learned any true qualities of a man.

Such men are ready to lean on the shoulders of a woman and finally let her take care of them.

Such a man may not even talk about his mother, but he will expect a woman to have the maternal qualities.

As a child, he may have been loved and praised, but the conditions he was raised in prevented him from becoming a true man. Maybe his mother was constantly serving him and suffocating him with love.

Such a man, without knowing it, treats a woman as his mother, pushing her to take the role of a mother. For example, he does this by asking, "What do I do in this situation?" His sentences often start like this: "I cannot find my ..."; "Help me find my ..."; "Give me my ..."

Such a man often does not know how to deal with different situations, cannot make decisions on his own and constantly demands attention and support.

Such a man does not come home carrying flowers and telling his wife: "Honey, I have been thinking about you all day, and I'm so happy that you're with me."

Such a man comes home and shares his dissatisfaction with life, the environment, and situations by ‘transferring’ the tension and the responsibility onto the ‘strong’ shoulders of a woman.

Why do women choose
to live with weak men?

Most of the women take this role quite willingly, acting like they ‘are strong and can do anything.’ This role comes from the times of our grandmothers, and it's very well known.

Women often assume the bait of the ‘weak’ men since, deep down inside, they like feeling superior. It's also convenient because you do not need to learn any new roles, and you can immerse yourself in the routine.

FACE YOURSELF: if you attract the ‘minus’ or ‘zero’ type of men into your life, it means that you ‘emit’ a certain frequency—from within—which ‘attracts’ these type of men ...

THE GOOD NEWS is that everything can be changed ... but we'll talk about this later. Let's talk about the last category of men first ...

THE REAL MEN – THE ‘PLUS’ TYPE OF MEN

The 3rd type of men: THE ‘PLUSES’

A plus type of man has three main roles: the breadwinner, the guardian, and the strategist.

These are the men we are looking for all our lives! These are the qualities we secretly or openly want to see in our partners.

Or maybe it would be more accurate to say that we are actually searching for ourselves—which we become when we're with a PLUS type of man. A woman in her natural state: charming, beloved, feminine and secure.

What are the qualities
of a ‘plus’ type of man?

He’s a man of your dreams. Every woman dreams of being with him.

♂ He is masculine and responsible; you feel calm and safe with him.

♂ He is the breadwinner and the one who takes on the responsibility, makes a woman's dreams come true, and he's a lover of your dreams.

♂ He’s a man who wants to take care of his woman and does that with pleasure.

♂ He’s a man who can protect and defend a woman.

♂ He's a man with a strong male attitude who bravely fights for his goals, learning more and more masculine qualities every day.

♂ The masculinity of such a man grows daily; he is full of energy and testosterone; he radiates male; he is active and full of solar energy.

♂ Being with such a man, a woman can either choose to work or not to work; whichever she feels like is best for her at the time.

♂ A woman can reveal herself, bloom and relax when she's with a ‘plus’ type of man. Her femininity is growing, and her heart is singing.

WHAT KIND OF A WOMAN ATTRACTS A PLUS TYPE OF MAN?

In order to attract such men to our lives or to help our men become like them, we meditate, heal our childhood wounds, try to reconnect with our parents and ancestors, learn to express emotions and take care of our vital and sexual energy.

ALSO, she is:

♀ A woman who has taken care of her inner world and her emotions. She understands what memories and attitudes she has brought from her childhood.

♀ A woman who has a connection with a higher power; she also feels the power of her sexuality and femininity. You can find more information about the Jade Egg by clicking here.

♀ A woman who can turn to herself, accept and support her husband.

♀ A woman who is skilled in the art of communication; she is connected to her womb and the feminine magic; she can give a man ‘wings,’ inspiration, and pleasure.

THESE ARE THE WOMEN THAT MEN NEVER LEAVE!

As soon as you discover the ‘diamonds’ that lay within a man, when you help him fulfill himself, you will become a beloved and cherished woman that every man would like to be with!

☑ So now we will discuss how to become a woman in harmony and how to help your man become a PLUS type.

☑ We'll also discuss what a single woman should do to attract a PLUS to her life.

Reading this article, you have turned to the biggest mirror of your life—your husband and partner. Now it's time to congratulate yourself for the courage and patience and to draw this picture in your mind, which will lead you to your happiness and light.

In order for a man to become a ‘plus,’
you have to take care of your inner state.

• IF THERE'S NO MAN IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW, they will begin to appear, and they will be much more masculine and responsible. You can compare this to the flowers in the meadow: when they are filled with honey, the bees come. We all inevitably obey the laws of the universe.

• And IF YOU'RE LIVING WITH A MAN, AND YOU'RE DISSATISFIED WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOU FEEL FED UP AND UPSET, your changed energy will take you to the new experiences.

A man and a woman are created in such a way that when the energy field changes around You, it also changes around the man.

He simply has no choice. If you become more feminine, the man becomes more masculine, and vice versa.

It only requires patience, knowledge, meditation, or practice—which will change your inner state and help you love yourself.

THIS IS AN IMPORTANT MESSAGE to women who are taking the path of spirituality and are mad at men who are not following them ...

... when a woman starts to change and when she feels the feminine power, her energy frequency changes, and problems arise.

In most cases, a man becomes a lubber who doesn't understand anything, and the woman becomes a Goddess who does so much ...

... if we consider ourselves to be magical Goddesses that just have to put this article under their noses and lecture them on ‘how they should do things...’ and then leave the room being upset, you can't really expect to have positive results anytime soon ...

... many spiritual teachings which lead us to a deeper self-knowledge concentrate on personal growth. But in most cases, they do not teach you how to stay in touch with your husband or people close to you when you're taking ‘the journey to yourself.’

Very often, after becoming a ‘Goddess,’ a woman stops looking for ways to communicate, to help the person next to her fulfill his life, listen to his needs; rather, she tries to ‘pull’ him with her ...

BUT a reader of the ‘CHOCOLATE SOUL’ knows that ...

▼ Men are much slower and simpler than we are.

▼ A woman who is on her own path and looks at her husband with love, gratitude, and respect can win much more. This way, a man will choose his own speed and will be able to improve himself in his own way.

▼ If you are currently in a relationship with a man who you have a family with, tell yourself or write down these words on a piece of paper from time to time:

Thanks to this man's positive or negative efforts; I am on this path. I thank him for that. I know that my changed vibrations will inevitably change the dynamics of our relationship; we will create new layers of our relationship and new qualities.

I know this is a process, and I let my husband move at his own speed. As soon as I feel dissatisfied, I will remind myself that this is my husband, and I must get back to the state of love and gratitude. I know that this is a process that I, as a woman, can very strongly and patiently influence with my internal state and energy.

So, darling, I'm very pleased that you've read this article to the end.

Perhaps you understood what you could do differently. Or maybe you felt the desire to do wonderful feminine practices that will help You love yourself and, after changing your ‘frequency,’ find a ‘plus’ type of man ...

And if you want to accelerate the process of developing your sexuality and femininity, we suggest you read more about the MAGICAL JADE EGG and other practices for intimate health ...

It's really wonderful that you're interested in these topics and that you've read the article!

We'd love to share this information with as many women as possible. So if You find this information useful, we invite you to join the circle of ‘CHOCOLATE WORLD’ women and to share this article with your friends.

Yours,
Rūta, ‘Chocolate Soul’

P. S. I do the feminine practices and Jade Egg exercises in various situations in life.

When I feel beautiful and uplifted after a practice, I can ‘go’ even higher, and during those days when I have lost the glow or desire to do anything, I still ‘push’ myself and spend some very long 20 minutes, even though I don't want to and am in doubt about it and my mind keeps telling me that it won't work.

But then, after a few hours, something inside of me changes, and the world begins to look more colorful, and my energy comes back ...

Sometimes I feel unloved, unappreciated and unwanted. Then everything around looks hopeless and empty.

Everything is upsetting and annoying, and every uttered word hurts me. When I'm doing the practice, the energy starts to rise, and I start crying from the heart itself (Jade Egg practice, sexual-feminine practice), and then I find myself in a much deeper pit.

The energy pushes up everything that prevents me from enjoying life. It touches the deepest wounds in my heart, and I feel like it will always be as bad as today. But after a few hours, I calm down, and I feel my energy coming back, and the agony, which I created myself, ends.

On the next day, my face skin seems lighter, my body recovers, and I'm ready to enjoy life once again.

When I don't want to have sex, and I feel like my body is ‘sleeping,’ I do the practices using the Magical Jade Egg, which awakens my sexual energy, rejuvenates me, and improves the relationship in my family ...
This is why you must try the sets of practices that we made for you.

Today we’ll discuss 10 traits of femininity that will make you feel like a WOMAN WORTH A MILLION …

“A woman worth a million” is an amazing metaphor which reflects a set of certain feminine traits that some women have and upon meeting such a woman, you can’t ever forget her!

Almost ANY woman, even a regular one, can develop these qualities and become unforgettable.

Perhaps, in your life, you have met women that were spreading something incredibly attractive around them. Something that attracted both men and women. And it was not the exterior beauty. It was something inside of them … And this article is all about it…

While reading, you can mark down the qualities you lack and the ones you already have. Every day, every year, every hour is a great time to start changing the old habits that do not bring any joy to you.

Because if you keep doing what you were doing before, you will only get more of what you already have today …

So, ask yourself, do you really want it? How long have you been promising yourself to start living differently—to love yourself, improve the relationship with your husband, find a loved one or change your financial situation?

You must have learned a couple of times that most of the dreams are only dreams and the usual routine, and life itself remains the same as before. Your sexuality and femininity are lost in the daily routine and never-ending chores.

However, we invite all women to set a serious and clear goal: to love themselves, to shine and to finally change their life.

In order to do this, you must first understand what was earlier preventing it.

Most of us want to change our lives, to find ways to enjoy relationships and ourselves, but we do not know HOW …

And sometimes we also lack motivation because most of the women that are around us live similarly, and we have no one to be inspired by.

„I’ve been in the same situation for years. There were no women in my circle that I could learn from to be feminine and self-confident.

All the women in my circle took different paths of life … My mother is a very beautiful woman, but she comes from the 5th−6th decade. There was no time to think about femininity because women were forced to focus on the main survival issues.

As time went by, I began to think that the value of a woman depends on her beauty, financial situation, and male attention. But then again, I was surprised.

Since I lived in Los Angeles for many years and worked as a model, I had the opportunity to meet very beautiful and wealthy women.

When I got to know them a little better, I learned that beneath this ‘spectacular facade,’ expensive clothes, and gossip lies unhappy and insecure women that are afraid of losing their beauty, status, and husbands.

Most of them are undervalued, misunderstood and unable to maintain relationships. Like other women that I met, they try to fulfill themselves with the WRONG things and waste their lives seeking happiness in places where it doesn’t exist.

After spending 11 years in California, I learned about another type of women—the type of women who meditate, are spiritual and turned to themselves. I was thinking, “This is it. Happiness is within us.”

But eventually, I understood that the women on this path are also unhappy and often unappreciated.

It turned out that these women can talk about spirituality, the laws of the universe—being ‘here and now’—and meditation camps for hours, but they do not enjoy the simple earthly life; they do not care about their looks; they’re excessively concerned with helping others (“I want to help others, but not MYSELF”).

Not too many of them have a good relationship with their husbands, and sexuality and money is a taboo. They radiate love at seminars, but they rarely apply it in their everyday life.

I’ve traveled half the world in my life; I’ve ‘tried on’ different lifestyles, met women from different countries and attended a lot of trainings where I met some wonderful women.

They helped me realize what a real woman is.

Apparently, it’s an adorable, self-conscious woman living a beautiful earthly life together with the people around her, and who’s got some spiritual qualities in her everyday life. It’s a woman who has found ways to fulfill herself and give herself what we are constantly looking for on the outside—in husbands, in cash, or just in the future.

I cannot say that this is the real woman’s happiness, but I can honestly say that only now have I started to really live and enjoy life.

I want to share with YOU those principles that helped me create and find myself as a woman …
‘Chocolate Soul’ was created for YOU to show you how you could use simple and very effective tools to help you move from the usual and unsatisfying point in your life. It will also inspire you to take certain actions that will help you become a real woman worth a million.

Femininity, beauty, and joy are the most important elements of a WOMAN’S life, which help her bloom herself and inspire her environment to thrive as well.

Perhaps this article will help you understand which path you should take. It’s the path to femininity that your heart secretly or maybe openly longs for.

This article will help you plant a wonderful seed in your heart, which will grow into a wonderful blossom.

So we invite you to learn what lies under the phrase ‘A woman worth a million’ and to see what feelings this article will bring you.

10 TRAITS …

• First of all, she is a woman who cares for her outer beauty

It’s not just the pretty nails, skin, and hair. It’s also the clothing and style, which help you send a message to the world about you.

Darling, you have to care about your appearance and not hide under the ‘comfortable’ mask of a woman who takes care of all the others. You are a woman, and you have to take care of your looks.

And we’re not talking about expensive designer clothes or other fancy stuff. We’re talking about a woman who remembers that her clothes and looks tell the others ‘a story of her life.’ Think about what your looks tell the rest of the world: is it “I am a wonderful and attractive woman”? or is it “I have lost myself in the daily routine”?

When you answer this question, use every minute to express yourself and your femininity. Don’t wait to lose weight, to feel better, etc. At least a couple of times a week, stop for a moment when dressing up and ask yourself: “What story do I want to tell about myself today?”

• A woman worth a million is HEALTHY AND SEXY

This means that you look after your health, take care of your sexuality and the feminine area.

If you’re already doing this, this means you refuse to believe in such statements as “It’s not the time …,” “This is not for me …,” “Sexuality is dirty, and it’s not worth talking about …,” etc.

A woman worth a million knows a lot of ways to boost her libido and to fill herself with sexual energy that makes her shine and feel vital (and this has got nothing to do with sex or other naughty stuff).

Such a woman is a savage lover, a shameful girl, and a proud queen—and she has befriended all of these sides of her.

Sexuality and the intimate feminine area are very important, and we have written a book about it “THE TRUTH TO INTIMATE FEMININE PROBLEMS” (by the way, you will not learn this from any doctor or gynecologist!).

• A woman worth a million is unforgettable

Both in the minds of men and women. Such a woman slides through life easily, and when she meets a person, she can give them a wonderful gift—a smile, tenderness, certainty, inspiration, and beautiful emotions.

Such a woman smiles at the sales assistants, sincerely thanks the waiters, strokes a child’s head, and inspires men for great deeds.

• A woman worth a million is filled with feminine energy and attracts others just like honey

A woman who has excessively shared herself with others is boring and empty …

It’s very important to perform feminine practice in order to avoid this, to connect to your body and find ways to love it.

In this way, you will learn to fill yourself with feminine energy, which is vital to every woman.

• A woman worth a million is able to distribute her energy correctly

It is very important to see what uses our energy the most and to ‘distribute’ it proportionally and in a healthy way. This means that if you decided to finish a certain job or committed to spend some time with yourself, nobody can take it from you. There is nothing more important than committing to YOURSELF.

You’ve probably noticed that as soon as you decide to enjoy life, your friends start calling you to share some boring stories, or your children get hungry, and all of this takes us back to where we started.

Here, you need to decide—to observe and to let yourself act differently than usual. Say ‘yes’ to yourself and ‘no’ to others.

A woman worth a million knows that first of all, she has to fill herself with energy, have some quality time for herself, and only then can she share herself with others. This is how the perfect balance between ‘giving’ and ‘receiving’ is achieved.

• She is a woman who is self-confident and knows her value

Confidence in the women’s vocabulary is often associated with ‘strength.’ A strong woman is associated with a woman from the beginning of the 20th century, who carries a great burden, does not complain, does not cry and is capable of surviving any challenge in life …

But it’s not self-confidence. Being arrogant and pretending to be ‘cool’ is not self-confidence either.

The true self-confident woman is the one who accepts herself with all her flaws and weaknesses; who is not afraid to express her wishes, desires, needs, and feelings.

She’s a brave woman who lets herself be real, vulnerable and, at the same time, understands that she has this power within her which she could use to move heaven and earth if she needed to.

• A woman worth a million can have a balanced, intimate and fulfilling relationship with a man

She’s a woman who is supportive and knows her place and is able to inspire a man and give him special feminine energy.

But first of all, you need to learn to let a man have his status and to support his decisions, no matter what they are.

It may be difficult at first, but you can start doing this today. When talking to your husband, just end your sentences by asking: “What do you think?”

This is a magical question and makes a man feel that his opinion matters to you.

This question also helps a man take responsibility for the current situation and invites him to deal with it together. To make a man admire you, you have to take the path to femininity yourself and learn the gentle and feminine ways to ‘suggest’ to men to be more masculine.

• A woman worth a million is a mastermind of communication and knows that feelings lie under the human words

She knows how to ‘read’ and respond to them.

She is able to listen, understand and sympathize. It’s very useful to read the books by Marshall Rosenberg or listen to him on YouTube.

This wonderful person can teach you to ‘listen with your heart’ and not with words. Many sentences that we instantly reply to is nothing more than other person’s ‘request’ to make them feel important, significant and visible.

• A woman worth a million does not wait for men or the environment to make her happy ...

She is constantly looking for ways to enjoy life and for the surprises the world can bring. And if she doesn’t find them, she creates them herself.

And it doesn’t mean that you have to come up with expensive entertainment or save up for a trip. You can start creating wonderful moments right now.

• A woman worth a million lives in wealth and luxury

She knows various feminine ways to raise money in her life.

She has befriended money and knows that she’s worth a comfortable and beautiful life.

Darling, let yourself become such a woman today!

You have all the means to do this; you just have to understand that you are the CREATOR of your life to encourage yourself, to discover the circle of supporting women, and to keep going on the path to FEMININITY.

A WOMAN WORTH A MILLION is a woman who knows her value and is self-confident … she is glowing with the joy of life and is happy … she is unforgettable and hard to resist …

She is a woman who has merged with her feminine nature. She is feminine and charming. She is in touch with her body, nature, and higher powers. She clearly understands the pain and grief that lie within her, and she knows how to manage that so that it doesn’t affect her relationships and quality of life.

A woman worth a million is a woman whom you will never forget once you meet her because she is glowing with a special feminine energy, beauty, and femininity, and the whole world is smiling at her.

And when she cries, the world waits for her to stop because it knows that she’s a real and sincere woman who lets herself be whatever she feels like.

The majority of the men want to be with such a woman; children are laughing when they’re with her, and other women are inspired by her …

Becoming a wonderful woman is no longer just a dream!

All you have to do is spend a few minutes with yourself every day and take advantage of the tools we offer.
Here are some testimonies and examples of amazing changes from our customers:
I did not believe in such things in the past but now, when my husband asks “What happened to you? We’re just like we were when we started dating,” I understand that this is really working! And once, when having the morning coffee, he said this phrase from one of the practices: “I want to take care of you.” I almost fell off the chair. This practice and the Jade egg is my most wonderful feminine secret.
– Linda

… It really worked. I was always dreaming to be a Queen, and now I just can be one. I’ve noticed how people look at me; I get a lot of compliments; my husband admires me; my sexual life has improved …
– Carol

I can only say that it is one of the best investments in me. I enjoy the practices a lot, I do them every day; I only choose the mood I’m into at that time. I can already feel the change in my wellbeing and self-esteem as well as in the relationship with my husband.
– Jane

We invite you to use our unique tools and really become a WOMAN WORTH A MILLION!

Ruta, Chocolate Soul

This article contains proven manipulative tricks, the secrets to the art of seduction, episodes from the lives of Hollywood models and millionaires, and other juicy details … Let’s leave out all the soul and karma stuff out of it and just have fun.

As women, we have always dreamed of being the one and only. We are extremely pleased when men shower us with attention or otherwise make an effort to make us feel charming and special.

Unfortunately, not every woman is familiar with these feelings.

The good news is that most of us can easily achieve this but, unfortunately, do not know how.

We will soon find out the characteristics of women that men make an effort for, and we’ll also talk about why some men will never make an effort for us irrespective of what we do.

P. S. If you’re not interested in some cheap, manipulative tricks and intriguing details of the Hollywood or model life, you can just skip this part and start reading from the penultimate chapter titled “NEXT level games.”

This article is meant for you if:

• you're lonely, and you're worried that you're going to stay this way, as men just keep disappearing from your life. After reading this article, you will learn how to change this situation;

• there's a man in your circle whose attention you've been craving for quite some time. The methods described in this article will help you get him interested much sooner than you could imagine;

• you've been married or living with your partner for a long time, and you're frustrated that you're invisible and unappreciated.

So, if you find yourself in such or a similar situation, you can relax because you will soon learn some great tips—and you can modify it whenever you want.

This article contains everything.

• First of all, we'll discuss the unpleasant part because you will have to understand that you're making a lot of mistakes while dealing with men, and this is simply because you do not know that the male and female brain hemispheres work differently.

• Then we'll talk about some very simple but very effective ‘buttons’ that you can use while communicating with an existing or future partner.

• Later, we'll move to the most important part of the article—we'll find out how a woman should act when she's tired of being a victim as well as tired of men that keep disappearing or are not making any efforts or are just couch potato husbands.

The ‘buttons’ that we’re going to discuss can drive any man crazy. It is, therefore, crucial for us, women, to know them.

The manipulative tricks, when applied correctly (and with good intentions), help us better understand men, get the love and attention that we crave, and at the same time, the men also experience great moments and emotions.

So, don’t be shy; start learning with pleasure and excitement.

CAUTION:

Women who hate and do not love men should not read this article. They won’t like it!

So, if you’re already upset (while reading the article’s introduction or headline), it’s best to immediately close this page because what you’ll read next will surely make you lose your patience, and you will start making abusive comments.

Sure, you can open up to us entirely but just have in mind that a lot of people will have a chance to see that your inner world is poor and repulsive. But it’s up to you to decide…

The sad part is that sooner or later, you will have to change and clean up your mess since this is the real reason why there’s no man or great friends beside you, neither is there someone who would like to share a life with you!

Personal experience:

By no means do I call myself an expert on relationships, but I think I can speak about men because I have spent half my life on the catwalk, earning money and socializing with men from different social classes.

I’ve been traveling through different cities and continents, and I, therefore, had to find a way to get what I want quickly.

So, first of all, we will discuss how you can quickly seduce men and get what you want—aside from sex and other things that women find unpleasant.

I think the universe knew that the path of my life would be very colorful and fun, and it gave me some specific qualities, which every one of us has but just need to be awakened and strengthened.

• What do you think a 21-year-old woman would do when she has flown across the Atlantic with two suitcases—on her way to Hollywood—and then realized that there is no promised model agency, and she has 600 dollars left in her pocket, which is not even enough for a ticket to get back?

• Or what would you do when a taxi driver steals your wallet when traveling in Africa? You have to find a solution somehow ...

• What would you do when nobody wants to hire you in Los Angeles because you do not have any legal documents, and the money is almost gone?

I have solved all these and other problems with the help of men (because they’re strong, persistent, and they can solve the problems that seem impossible for me to deal with).

I don’t feel bad about this because life has taken me to places where I was forced to deal with difficult situations and act quickly and efficiently.

I would continuously improve my knowledge and test it with men of different national and social backgrounds.

So, first of all, let me share some cheap and well-known tricks that will never disappoint you when you want to influence men quickly and effectively:

• Secret #1: Becoming interested in a man and his life

No matter what my goal was, the beginning was always the same (i.e., all the conversations were about HIM). Well, at least 80%. I used to listen carefully to him, and I occasionally admired him, which was enough for a man to feel good about himself and make him want to do something for me.

Most of the women think that the No. 1 ‘button’ is sex. Unfortunately, it’s not!

Sex is the worst ‘button,’ and it should not be used if you want to become a special woman that men would want to make an effort for.

Did you know that when a man makes love to a woman and ejaculates, his energy and attention—which were directed to the woman just a second ago—go away, and he wants to pull away and do other stuff?

We need to remember that we, as women, are completely different. Sexual relations to us mean intimacy, attachment, and opening up …

The sad news is that a man will not become attached to a woman after making love to her, and he will not want to make extra efforts for her …

He will want more sex at best, but this way, we will distant ourselves from our needs and feminine nature. It is, therefore, better to refrain from sex in the beginning of a relationship—since it contains very strong energy which mixes everything up and takes away our power (if we’re using it wrongly).

You can use sex for other purposes (such as for intimate connection, pleasure, healing your childhood traumas, etc.) but in no way can you keep a man interested through sex.

In order to successfully ‘manipulate’ men, a woman must take care of herself and be able to spread her sexual energy (with the help of the Nephrite Egg).

Better yet, a woman could learn to make sex a promise that she wouldn’t be in a rush to fulfill.

When I was eighteen, a modeling agency ‘Look Models Agency’ offered me a job.

When I went to Austria, I met the owner of the agency, who was driving an impressive car. The rules were simple back then: if you were successful enough to become your boss’s pet, you would have more modeling jobs.

I immediately opted out of sleeping with him and started applying my own system—which has given me positive results for years.

The owner of the agency would come and get me from across the city of Vienna, take me to the auditions, and then we would sit in cafes where he would tell me about his life achievements—and I would carefully listen.

After a few weeks, when there was almost nothing left to talk about—and things had started turning toward the bedroom—I had become quite well-established in the agency, so I stayed for a couple more months.

When I later saw that the pressure for sex was getting overwhelming, I dropped everything and left for Los Angeles.

I could tell you a hundred stories like this, but for now, I just want to say that a woman who is rushing into sleeping with men is not desirable, so drop this strategy right away!

Trust me, men need to be recognized and listened to, and when they find a woman who listens to them, they can do anything for her.

Even most of the millionaires (and I met lots of them) have told me that their women are dissatisfied and only interested in themselves … They criticize men a lot, and most of them never learn what a true relationship between a man and a woman is, but we’ll talk about this in other ‘Chocolate4Soul.com’ article.

When I first went on holiday with the Los Angeles celebrities, I was afraid they would push me away when they realized that I’m just a simple Soviet girl trying to find my happiness. I was really worried how I’d survive the whole week …

Not knowing what else to do or talk about, I didn’t do anything else except keenly listening to other people and paying attention to them.

A few days later, there would be so many men around me that they would secretly compete over who comes to me first.

• Secret #2: A woman should be playful and natural

The good girls trying to make an impression are so boring.

I admire women who are charismatic, disobeying the rules and taking control of their lives. A woman who is showing her kindness and losing herself is utterly boring to a man.

Be sure to act as natural as you can. You will be surprised that you can remain yourself even better while interested in a man.

I would always be myself—I would never try to be too kind, intellectual, helpful or make an impression in any other way …

I wouldn’t try showing my kind and feminine side. I was once quite a ‘RocknRolla.’

I would have an occasional shot of tequila, and I was never hiding it.

I would have an occasional shot of tequila, and I was never hiding it.

I would carry a small flask; I had a couple of tattoos; I was learning to drive a motorcycle, and I was wearing aggressive outfits. It helped me look cool and kept my identity.

There was a time when I loved hiking in Los Angeles, and I couldn’t stand sitting in cafes. I would, therefore, invite men to join my adventures.

I would include them in my life, show them the places I like to go to, introduce them to the activities that fascinate me.

From the very first moment, I would gently tell them that I have a personality, and I’m planning on keeping it.

I try to continue doing this. I know what I like, what I want to do, and pleasing my husband and children is not my priority.

Men (and everyone else) like it when a woman can laugh, act surprised, and express her emotions in other ways.

Therefore, acting extremely serious and smart is very unfeminine. Do not do this! After all, it is much more pleasant to be with people who are happy.

Most of the women live boring lives—house, job, shop, house …

You wouldn’t want such a life; it’s not very interesting, and it’s damaging. A 40-year-old woman constantly talking about food, child illnesses, etc., can easily push a man away (and she will never be a dream woman).

An exception: There are some exclusive couples who actually enjoy raising children.

For example, a woman stays at home raising children, and her husband is constantly interested in how she spends time with children. If both partners feel good, there’s no need to change anything, but if one of them starts to feel dissatisfied, the situation must immediately change, and they need to change their attitude toward life and look at it in a more playful way.

A woman must learn to create a much more interesting and colorful space around her. It’s best to start with your inner world.

After doing the feminine practice, a woman starts to feel that she’s worth much better things in life than this daily routine, and she then becomes unstoppable.

• Secret #3: A woman who is busy and in love with her life

Find a hobby and pursue it but by no means pretend that you like something. A man can feel if a woman only pretends to be hard to get while she actually sits at home, worries and keeps waiting for his call.

In the energetic world, these things are easily recognized, so don’t lean on him as the only option for you to spend your free time and don’t start waiting for him when the date is not over yet.

The same goes for long-term relationships. Women imagine that their husbands and children are all that they care about. They neither have their best interests at heart nor do they have money, and they become too dependent on men, and then it becomes quite hard for them to position themselves as desirable women.

Show your husband that you are also a goal-seeking woman. It will make things better for you as well.

Most of the men indeed like women who are persistent and trying to reach their goals.

Then their subconscious tells them that they can achieve a lot while being with such a woman.

Men are results-oriented. Therefore, if you’re so active, it sends them a signal that together, you can reach common goals.

If you’re in a long-term or short-term relationship, and you’re able to convince a man that he can achieve anything while he’s with you, he will see you as a very valuable and special woman.

I think my husband will almost never miss a chance to spend time with me or have dinner together because we work on staying interested in each other …

It happens very rarely, but still, sometimes there are some doubts.

I sometimes become very angry with all my family members who do not appreciate everything I do for them …

Sometimes I want them to do something for me as well …

I’m not playing the old games anymore—like running away, texting my ‘exes’—and I do not cause tension or anger.

I just immerse myself into my inner world. I become busier, I go to the gym in the evenings, and I create a deficit of me so that my loved ones would make an effort to spend time with me.

Warning!

Sometimes women upload their pictures to social networks and try to show men that they must be conquered, etc.

From my experience, I can tell you these cheap tricks rarely work with men. They know that life is full of challenges, and they subconsciously look for a woman who is sincere and strong in a feminine way …

They sometimes do not even realize that deep down inside, they know that if they start a relationship with a drama queen, it will be really hard to live with her in peace and harmony. (So if you accept such a challenge, at least make it half-true.)

• Secret #4: Strong relationship with a man's EGO

A woman who is in a long-term or short-term relationship must befriend a man’s ego.

What is an ego?

This is man’s self-esteem. Every self-respected woman must realize that a man’s ego is an overblown matter. Naturally, a man is very sensitive to insults and criticism.

Most of the psychological literature states that the biggest pain that a woman can cause a man is the public humiliation of his ego.

Therefore, a woman who wants to stay in a man’s life must remember that she shouldn’t make fun of him, interrupt him in public, or make fun of him in any other way …

It’s just PROHIBITED!

The women who act like this most probably will never have a beautiful relationship because they keep blowing off a man’s candle just to strengthen the fire of their own. And that is very ugly and wrong.

A woman who encourages her man and treats him in a sensitive way is a real diamond.

A man is ready to make efforts and fight for such a woman.

Thus, the appearance and body language attracts a man, and embracing his ego makes you feel loved and irreplaceable for life.

The journalists that were interviewing me kept asking how I managed to seduce a millionaire that I was married to in Los Angeles.

My biggest secret is that I listened to him, and I respected his ego.

I was his best friend. He would feel much stronger while attending business or personal meetings with me than without me …

I was his loyal supporter and friend. Unfortunately, he was too old for me, so our needs were incompatible. I was seeking for true love and a deep, long-term relationship.

I really like men. Over the years, I have learned that men can pretend to be superheroes, machos, etc., but actually, there’s a little boy in each of them, who needs support, is really happy when a woman laughs at his stories and enjoys the time spent together …

If you learn to accept his weaknesses and sensitive side and help him feel stronger, he will forever love you.

Next level games … or a life without games …

So, now that we’ve talked about short and effective tricks that will surely help you become a desirable woman, let’s move on to the next level and discuss the qualities of a woman who is so WOW and so VIP that she does not need to play any games.

It’s a woman working on her inner world and femininity.

Such a woman is precious on her own; a man loves and adores her and makes an effort to keep her with him and feel loved.

There is no other way!

You need to attain the level of a worthy woman, and to reveal the quality and beauty within you, you have to work for it. Get rid of the internal rubbish, work on your attitude, care for your energetics, learn some communication secrets, etc.

A worthy woman can get rid of a man’s fears and support him when he hits a rocky road. A woman who works on her inner world knows that it makes no sense to accuse someone else of her problems; she must always ask herself how she got into that situation.

After all, you must have noticed that bitter women attract bitter men, tired women attract men that exploit them even the more (or in exceptional cases, comfort them), masculine women attract feminine men, etc.

And playful, successful and feminine women attract ‘supermen’ or help their men to become ‘supermen.’

So, if you can attain the next level, there’s going to be plenty of men in your life (and if you already have a man, he will become much more attentive and loving, and you won’t have to play any games).

You will understand deep down in your heart that you’re a worthy and valuable woman, and you don’t have to cling to a man; it is him that must work hard for you because you are the diamond in his life (as soon as you start thinking in line with this practice, the situation will change).

A woman who is self-confident is sending a very clear signal to a man:

You have to make an effort for this woman since there’s always going to be other men that might need this wonderful woman.

Usually, women think that they need to compete with other ladies, to dress nicer, to show more, etc., but it’s not really worth investing in, as these things neither bring any long-term benefits nor self-confidence.

It’s better to invest more time in finding what makes us happy.

Now I have a beloved husband, and we have been in a relationship for many years. At this point, I have no doubt that I do not need to prove anything (but life is dynamic, and everything might change very quickly, so I never take things for granted …).

I have no doubt that he knows he’s stronger when he’s with me; he has less fears, and he’s more self-confident. My husband knows that he has a woman beside him that can help his dreams come true. I am both a friend and a lover and a business partner. We have many ways of being together and supporting each other.

I know that only a few have what I have. However, everyone can live in harmony with themselves and have a man next to them—a man who loves, supports, and cherishes them. Unfortunately, most women simply do not believe that it is possible to improve on existing relationships and be happier.

You might already have had children together; you’re in a commitment, etc. Yes, he’ll probably be with you, but you actually know that your relationship has gone cold …

All these notwithstanding, you can actually have a much sincerer relationship. It all begins with your interest, smile, and desire …

Objection:

Perhaps you might argue: “Why must it be us to make a man’s life happy and fun and not vice versa?”

Certainly, they must do this as well, but if we just sit and wait for someone else to start doing something, our life may just pass us by.

Therefore, our duty as women is to take care of ourselves and our inner state. Yes, sometimes men really bring us down, but it’s not worth giving up.

Sometimes he will not have another option: either rise with you or say goodbye. So it’s really worth it to work on your inner self.

That’s exactly what happened to me.

I worked on myself and waited for him to realize this, but he was a completely different person. Over the years, I’ve completely changed; we had different attitudes, and it was really easy for us to pull back from each other and separate. So you don’t have to be afraid of this as well.

Finally, let’s calm some women down—those who are making an effort for their husbands, but they do not even lift a finger for them.

Can all men fight for women?

Are you a wonderful woman, and you work on yourself, but your man does not appreciate your effort and does nothing for you? This may be because he is just a different kind of man, and this has nothing to do with you.

Just relax and do not criticize yourself in any way. We have discussed just a few things in the article; every person is different, and you cannot judge them all the same.

For example, I have met such men that were genuinely in love with me, but they didn’t even try to pursue me because they neither had the strength nor inner resources for it. Some of them were really afraid of being rejected, and they didn’t even try.

Here’s another example: My daughter’s father had agreed that we both go our separate ways and that I would continue my life without him. When I decided to end this long-term relationship, he didn’t resist at all and didn’t even try to fight for me (which was very unpleasant).

Another great example is my overseas adventure.

I was once dating the owner of a casino in the Bahamas. I was a waitress on a cruise ship at the time, and I would see him a couple of times a week.

One day, he asked me to stay, but I refused and went back to the ship. This man later went ahead to stop a cruise ship with his yacht, paid a great fine and asked me to stay. I don’t actually think I was very special to him; he just really loved the adrenaline …

So, there are all sorts of men, and you don’t have to worry about it.

Everyone one of them has some kind of childhood wounds and beliefs—some of them play the games of conquering women; others are afraid of pursuing a woman since their parents told them that they’re losers, etc.

The last and THE GREATEST SECRET!

There’s one more wonderful and rare quality of a woman that we can all awaken within ourselves.

When communicating with a person, be completely sincere. You can apply this strategy to children, grandparents, parents, and loved ones.

As soon as I feel the routine in our relationship, I perform this invisible action inside of me, which is revealed on the outside and brings all of us a lot of pleasant moments.

In my heart, I pretend that this is our last meeting.

This means that I talk to my loved ones with all my heart as if I were seeing them for the very last time in my life. As soon as I create this state in my heart, I become so loving and so attentive that being with me seems like heaven.

How to apply this secret if you are just starting a relationship?

Imagine that a man comes to your life, and you do not know how long he would stay with you—an hour, a day, a week … Immerse yourself in the knowledge of being together with all your heart. In the beginning of a relationship, it is very important not to think about the future, where this is all going, etc.

Remember that during your date, you just have to enjoy this man, his stories, his touch, his smile, and the time spent together. A woman who can create such an environment around her is a real jewel; therefore, men admire her a lot.

So, if you’re dating now, just remember that you’re a woman who enjoys a date with a man as if it were their last meeting.

A man feels all the scents and colors of life when he’s with such a woman …

A woman who’s capable of enjoying every moment in life is very rare, so when men find such a woman, they cannot resist her. But in order to experience this, you have to work with yourself, gain some ‘lightness,’ self-confidence and some other features that we talked about in this article.

Start your journey to your inner self and femininity today, and you will see that in a few weeks, your life will start to change…

So the real mission of the ‘Chocolate4Soul’ project is to help you become the TOP woman, to separate yourself from this poor woman who’s constantly psychologically and physically ill, who finds herself in the role of a victim, cannot live without a man and is constantly threatened by the fears of the future or the past..

If you do not work on yourself, the relationship won’t get any better, and your man will not want to conquer you. Nobody wants to pursue a woman who’s poor, who needs to be saved and who needs a man to feel happy.

That’s why we prepared the amazing tools that you can use today!!

Ruta Banioni

P.S. You can meet me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chocolate4soul/

Honey, you should read this article if you want to bring back health, sensitivity, and pleasure to your feminine area … You will be introduced to 3 unbelievably simple SECRETS that will help you reach this goal in the easiest and fastest way!

In other words, if you want to feel orgasm, this is the most important article you will ever find!

Therefore, today we’d like to talk about sexual health.

It may seem as not the most pleasant topic to discuss among women, but these days it’s quite relevant and necessary.

You’re probably a wonderful woman who’s taking care of her appearance and facial skin. To keep your facial skin beautiful, young, and elastic, you should constantly nourish, scrub, massage, and moisturize it with facial creams. That goes without asking a few questions:

And what’s going on with your intimate area?

How much attention and care does it get? Why is your intimate area neglected?

It’s also a part of your body covered with a thin and sensitive skin … It is also a muscle that we have to take care of.

Maybe it does not matter to you because it’s not visible? But what would you say if you knew this fact:

All what is happening with your intimate area is reflected on your face and eyes!

Would you probably want to give yourself some more attention?

It’s time to look at the statistics and realize that women who love their bodies are familiar with it and feel the pleasure when making love to a man; they are also much more attractive and healthier.

There is quite a number of articles on this topic, and the statistics that you can find online may surprise you.

The truth is that your intimate area also needs your attention.

If it doesn’t get it, you might become ill or age sooner. So, we suggest you don’t waste any more time and start taking care of your intimate area just the way you care about the rest of your body and your facial skin.

Let’s discuss what you can do today to bring life and health to your intimate area.

Just think about it: If you have a plant at home, you’re taking care of it. You’re probably speaking to it, stroking it, and watering it … Please ask yourself, are you treating your body in the same way?

Why is your intimate area worth less than a flower or a beloved plant?

It’s completely not our fault that our mothers taught us to ignore our intimate area.

Most of us did not receive the proper ‘education’ on how to treat your sexual area and how to take care of it properly.

However, we live in a different and better time now: lots of amazing information can reach us, which helps us glow and enjoy life much more than our mothers ever could.

Your eyes reflect your intimate area. If a woman’s intimate area is ‘dead,’ her eyes are not shining and the woman loses half of her beauty.

If you haven’t made love in a long time, you haven’t paid attention to yourself, your blood circulation is ‘paused,’ your body is not filled with vital energy, your skin becomes greyish, and you do not emit any charming feminine vibrations.

And you can easily change this if you spend as little as 5 minutes per day with your intimate area.

You do know that good blood circulation is very important. Blood brings vital substances, oxygen, and vitamins into each cell, so it would be unreasonable to ignore your feminine area and not to take care of it.

Let’s FORGET everything our mothers told us about our intimate area and realize that it’s a very important female body part, and its vitality has a great impact on a woman’s life quality.

Most of the women do not dare to start doing the intimate area practices or wear the Magical Jade Egg, as they’re afraid they won’t know what to do with their awakened body and sexuality.

We’d like to emphasize: If you’re doing sexual practices or wearing the Jade egg, it does not mean at all that you’ll want to have sex all day long. It just creates a wonderful feminine state which helps you spend another joyful day of your life.

The feminine power and energy is ‘hiding’ behind a door which you can ‘knock’ and talk them into ‘coming out’ to help you look better as well as feel better and to maintain a good relationship with your husband.

Let’s talk about 3 ways of ‘knocking’ that secret feminine door and feeling the feminine energy.

 

• THE SECRET is Kegel exercises

You can better understand the contractions of your intimate area if you try to remember a toy from your childhood—a spinning top. Do you remember how you used to pull it just a little and then it would not stop spinning?

Commit to doing it daily. Do not jump out of bed in the morning. You’re a woman, after all. The family climate and its mood depend on you. You can work miracles!

As soon as you wake up, charge yourself with vital energy by doing 50 Kegel exercises.

Try to imagine that it is a flower blossom which you open and close inside of you. Your mood and blood flow will improve, and you will be energized for the whole day.

The contractions of the intimate area are just a habit that is worth getting into. You can start from 20 contractions per day.

The greatest motivation to continue will be your inner state.

It might be hard to get into this habit at first, and you’ll have to watch yourself, and you’ll need some discipline, but as soon as you realize that feeling your body and your feminine area is really fun, you’ll start doing this automatically …

A woman who performs these short exercises starts to glow and blossom. She also starts spreading mysterious pheromones that men cannot resist.

Here’s a QUICK TEST which will help you decide if it’s time for you to start doing Kegel exercises:

• If men are not looking at you when you're walking down the street, it means you have to start doing Kegel exercises or start wearing the magical Nephrite egg.

• If your own or any other man does not pay attention to you, it means that you do not spread those magical pheromones, and your sexual health is not at its finest.

• Often other feminine illnesses remind us about the neglected feminine area (e.g., endometriosis, inflammation, etc.).

 

• THE SECRET is external care of this area

It is very important to care for the skin of your intimate area—to keep it clean, fragrant, and gentle.

At least once a week, use a mild scrub for your genital skin; then gently massage it with or simply apply coconut oil.

Feel your body—your intimate area and the heat that flows from it.

And while you’re taking a shower in the evening, do not ‘automatically’ or subconsciously touch yourself …

Massage your intimate area gently, and if you dare to do it, you’ll start feeling the blood flowing to our feminine area while bringing pleasure and sensuality.

 

• THE SECRET - getting to know your intimate area and saying hello to your secret G spot

If you want to have more joy in life, you will have to get to know your G spot. Women have known about it for ages. In the world of ancient Tantra, the G spot was called the Star.

And there’s nothing complicated about it. However, we have to fight the ideas that our grandmothers and mothers have drilled into our heads. At first, it may cause a discomfort. But there is no other way …

If you want to bring back sensuality to your life, to be attractive again and to have amazing orgasms, you have to do this …

A woman has to befriend her intimate area (to touch it, to take a good look at it, and fall in love with it) first, and only after that will her life be complete.

Therefore, we suggest you accept this information in a calm and open manner. There’s no need to get dramatic; you just have to overcome your mind and take a mirror and explore yourself. It’s a date with yourself.

If you still feel too shy to do it, we have created a wonderful practice for befriending your body, which you will find in the set of sexual practices “The Magic of Sexuality.

This practice will be a special tool which will help you maintain your sexuality, beauty, and healthy intimate area for years.

The next step is getting to know your G spot!

The truth is this: if a woman cannot relax when she's in bed, if she hasn't befriended her intimate area, hasn't awakened her sexual energy, has a lot of fears, feels ashamed or guilty, then even the best lover won't be able to satisfy such a woman.

The fact is this: whatever your loved one does, you will only feel as much as you let yourself to.

And if your feminine area is insensitive and tense, you can't expect anything.

Certainly, men should be learning about sex just as much as women.

However ...

If you feel almost nothing in your vagina when you make love, or you feel this ‘thing’ inside of you which doesn't give you any pleasure, even the best lover in the world won't be able to change that.

Women are so afraid of disappointing men; they cannot tell them the truth of how they really feel, and therefore, they continue to keep it to themselves, to suffer through it, to lie, and to fake it.

According to statistics, more than 70% of women have never experienced a real orgasm. They're satisfied with the clitoral orgasm, which only lasts a few seconds, and they think this is the best they can expect.

After experiencing much deeper feelings, a woman's life changes completely. She starts to glow as if she were in love; she starts to blossom and becomes much more beautiful and feminine.

Honey, if you want to feel the pleasure when making love to your husband ... if you want your intimate area to be healthy and full of life, we have a fantastic tool.

The most important thing that you can do about yourself is to learn how to AWAKEN YOUR INTIMATE AREA.

It will RADICALLY transform your sex life and introduce you to wonderful things.

This will help you trust your sexuality, love your body and have a greater sexual desire.

Life constantly keeps moving forward, and today you have to make a choice that is most appropriate for you. You have to decide whether you want to go slow and say hi to your sexuality once a week or to take the bull by the horns as a persistent and brave woman and prove to yourself to the universe and life that you're brave enough to take from life everything that belongs to you.

And if you're still doubting why you should use the above-mentioned methods, let us remind you a few things that are relevant to most women but are often forgotten:

• Treatment is very expensive and time-consuming these days, so it makes much more sense to prevent the feminine illnesses.

• A woman who is not working on her intimate area does not know what an orgasm is.

• To experience unforgettable orgasms and make your husband feel like a hero, you have to awaken your body and to free it from false beliefs.

• You'll give yourself a chance to become a wonderful lover because the best lover is the woman who enjoys herself and knows her body well.

• When fall in love with your feminine area and learn how to care for it, you'll gain some very important experience which you can pass on to your daughters. Most young women go through life not knowing their intimate area, and they are disappointed when they feel only pain and no pleasure with their partners in the first years. Therefore, it's very valuable to learn how to care for your intimate zone as well as teach other young women how to treat their wonderful body.

• A woman who cares for her intimate area will not be sharing herself easily; she will have respect for her body.

Thank you for reading this article, dear. Do not miss a day.

Scrub your intimate area today and gently massage it with coconut oil and enjoy yourself for a moment.

And if you feel that you're ready for the next step, learn more about Nephrite Egg

Ruta

 

7 most effective PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS that will make a man fall in love with you in a week! (Works for couples as well)

The women who know about this have an incredible advantage over other women.

Even if you’re not planning to use them to seduce a man, you must be aware of them if there is another woman using these tricks so that you could immediately recognize them.

These short and simple exercises will also help women whose relationships have gone cold. If a man does not pay attention to you, read all the steps and choose a few that you can use today!

The things that I’ll reveal in this article are taught by NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) masters in various seduction schools.

I’d like to WARN you that we’re going to talk about manipulation (even though I hate this word)…

Manipulation means that you treat and talk to someone to change their behavior or to get something from them—what you need.

Yeah, yeah, it’s not nice … blah-blah-blah. But we’re living in a world of manipulations.

We subconsciously manipulate our husbands and children, making them feel ashamed and guilty. The same is happening with us: some people keep manipulating us consciously; others—unknowingly.

Therefore, I think that a woman must be aware of different female tricks (even though they’re a bit manipulative).

The era of the good girls and modest homemakers has ended, and a modern woman knows how to enjoy life, knows her value and lives a colorful and comfortable life.

I think a woman must know how to attract a man’s attention (or to push a certain psychological button) rather than jump into another relationship that goes nowhere. And what do you think?

We’ve been wounded and hurt so many times, so why not embrace the secrets of women as well as psychological tricks that have been known for thousands of years? With the help of these, we can get what we need.

As charming as we are, there are certain laws of attraction among people in this world, so not knowing them is utterly silly.

I came up with the idea to write this article because recently, we’ve received a number of calls and letters with women telling us how much effort they’re putting into relationships with their men; they go and see them, pour their hearts to them, reveal their deepest desires, and they do not show any interest, neither do they appreciate their efforts.

No matter how hard it is to admit, dear, at the beginning of the relationship,no one is really interested in our true personality (full of wounds and distrust in oneself and others).

Therefore, it is advisable to “hide” it a little in the beginning …

Once you have established a relationship and have this energy flowing between you (when you have something in common), when you have attracted a man, then you can show your true self and involve him in your life and its small and big problems.

Why can I write about it?

I met a lot of women and men of different nationalities, age, and social status while traveling the world and living in Los Angeles for 11 years.

As sincere and true our relationships were, I can now honestly say that we always wanted something from each other. Unfortunately, we never talked about it.

I was very inexperienced at the time, and I wanted to find my place in the world and meet someone special.

I have slipped many times and had some painful experiences with men and my friends.

I am exactly the same woman as you are.

The only difference is that I have a lot of different experiences that I can share with you.

It’s a pity that I didn’t know these tricks before; they would have made my life a lot easier.

I can’t even remember how I much I cried because of all the failed relationships, traitor friends, and people who were only being friendly with me in order to get something from me.

However, no one is interested in a woman who is constantly calling, texting, and showing her wounded, hurt, and attention-seeking personality in the beginning of the relationship!

Just think about it; if a man gave you all his heart the first day you met, you wouldn’t probably need it.

Everyone likes to pursue and conquer someone, especially men.

I can remember how much I suffered when I rushed to open my heart to them, cared for them too much…, and they kept ignoring me, not picking up their phone; they would show up whenever they felt like it (well, I think you know what I’m talking about, so I don’t have to go on).

So, let me introduce you to the main tricks, and let’s use them without judging ourselves!

Here are the best manipulative tricks that will help you seduce a man that you desire!

Although I’d like to emphasize that even if you’ll be using these tricks, you have to remember that you should be true and honest about it; otherwise, it will all turn against you.

Another thing that you must remember is that these tricks are a short-term solution.

You have to start with yourself since a sincere and beautiful relationship is only possible if people are truthful and open.

• 1. The trick. "HE'S WONDERFUL"

 80% of your communication should be talking about him and not about you and your problems. He is the most interesting, the coolest, and the most masculine. His voice and stories are music to your ears and eyes…

If you have a crush on a certain man, create conditions for him to ‘shine’; then he will feel very good, and he will want to keep coming back to you. 80% of your time spent together should be talking about ‘how wonderful he is.’

Listen to him talk on various subjects—about his work, goals, childhood. Walk him through his pleasant memories, etc. No talking about your failures, health, or financial issues, and no deep conversations about your soul.

Ask for his opinion, advice, help …

The secret code for implementing this trick is “INTERESTED AND EASY.”

So here are the best manipulative tricks that will help you seduce a man that you desire!

There’s no way you can offload your problems onto another person at the beginning of the relationship. This is the first step to destroying a relationship, which you must avoid.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

If your relationship has gone cold, and your husband doesn’t hear you, it means that the things you’ve been recently saying to him have been particularly unpleasant. If you want to be seen and heard again, learn to listen to your man and to praise him.

A lot of women, especially Russians, can really admire a man. If you have such a friend or colleague who admires your husband so much, you have to be cautious about it.

This situation can go in two ways:

– you must pay more attention to your husband and praise him for being important and strong (remember how grandmothers taught us: “If you’re getting some at home, you won’t be looking for it elsewhere.”);

– or another easier option: get rid of the opponent or (if it is your friend, which was my case) ask her to ‘turn off’ those emotions and stop adoring and praising your husband.

• 2. The trick. A DATE FULL OF ADRENALINE

It’s another simple trick, which would be perfect at the beginning of the relationship. Get yourselves into a situation where both your hearts would beat as one.

I’m not suggesting anything dangerous, but you can try taking something from a shop (accidentally), take a ride on a scary roller coaster, go under a bridge, go to a bar and leave without paying, etc. : )

All of these situations are perfectly shown in the movie ‘9½ weeks’ as well as in the drama of Romeo and Juliet.

These films do not teach us how to have a sincere relationship that we desire so much, but they give you a lot of ideas how to make the relationship passionate.

This is a really important moment in the relationship. It’s classic, so it’s better to remember it and use it from time to time.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

Remember playfulness. We are often very serious, and we forget that we can be spontaneous and unpredictable.

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

It is imperative not to be stuck in the adrenaline period and to make sure that the relationship moves to the next stage. This phase can be so enjoyable that it’s a little bit scary to move on. The Russians call this stage of the relationship a Sweetness (Flower) period.

Unfortunately, there is no place for commitment; there’s only drama and adrenaline.

• 3. The trick. DEFICIT. KEEP HIM HUNGRY

Use this trick and make sure there is not much of you in the relationship. Maybe your mother taught you to take a step forward, and then take a step back.

Remember him. Here you are beside him, being interested in what he has to say, and the next day, everything is different … you don’t have any time to meet up or text back.

Most importantly: do not ‘overdose’ yourself. If you’re talking, keep something for yourself. Do not end your sentences and stories. In other words, leave behind a lot of open and unlocked doors behind you…

Of course, you can send him a sensual picture or a sexy message, but do not overdo it. A man you’re dating must always remain ‘hungry’; he has to want something from you all the time.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

Women must simply remember their husband. Not as a child, not as an object that needs to be taken care of, but as a man!

Send him a sexy message or your picture; act more brave than usual. Try to have a new affair with your husband. : )

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

It’s very important not to overdo it, and don’t play with your femininity too much (don’t get stuck coming up with ideas of how a real woman must act).

Most femininity schools teach women not to take the initiative, but we encourage you to try different tactics and see what helps you with your desires best.

Most femininity schools teach women not to take the initiative, but we encourage you to try different tactics and see what helps you with your desires best.

Don’t follow the rules; look for what’s best for you in that moment and create your own rules.

• 4. The trick. NOTES ON SEXUALITY

A woman who is afraid of sexual relations and has hidden her sexuality loses all her charm. However, this does not mean that you have to be pushy and jump into bed with him.

I am talking about your feminine energy. Your behavior, movements, face, clothes, and facial expression are sending a double message. It’s enough for a man to take a short look at you, and it becomes clear whether you’re blossoming or you have gone cold …

A contemporary woman who doesn’t want to age, who wants to keep enjoying sex and intimate relationships, must become interested in her sexuality and her intimate zone.

Awaken your intimate area yourself. A woman who keeps complaining that her husband never seduces her, etc., has to end this performance and take care of her pheromones and energy herself.

A woman who is cold and keeps waiting for someone to compliment her soon becomes unfashionable, and a woman who’s ready to take life into her own hands replaces her.

Awaken your sexuality using 3 TOOLS:

• FREE EBOOK

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• MAGICAL JADE EGG

IT'S IMPORTANT to every woman who is constantly suffering from various intimate problems, who doesn't feel any pleasure during sex, who's afraid of aging too soon and becoming boring to her own husband and other men as well ...

• • SEXUAL PRACTICES

If you're dealing with more gynecological problems as you age ... if you don't feel any pleasure during sex, and you do it just out of duty, or just because you don't want your husband to cheat, this is going to be the most important tool that you ever had!

It makes no sense to wait for something magical to happen in your life and for him to awaken your body.

It's better to take care of your sexuality yourself and to share your love and feminine energy rather than wait until he turns you on or surprises you.

Until I took an interest in my sexuality, I had to pretend a lot—avoid and pretend. So, if I hadn't stopped bothering my husband about it, I wouldn't have been able to enjoy my good health, happy relationship and great sex life now.

When a woman is enjoying herself, her body releases a certain smell and pheromones.

There's no time to lose, honey. You have to take care of your intimate area RIGHT NOW!

We all need to learn to be selfish in bed.

Such a woman is a real gift for a man since he can give her pleasure and enjoy it himself! (But we'll talk about it more in the other ‘Chocolate for Soul’ articles.)

How to use this trick if you're in a long-term relationship?

As soon as you feel that your sexual energy is gone, and you have become a housewife who's constantly taking care of home, when your husband touches you, you just shame him with your look and start telling those stories of how tired you are and your physical pain (we do this to make him feel guilty: "Can't you see how hard I'm trying for all of you, I'm constantly suffering from inflammations and yet you want to have sex with me! You don’t have any shame!"

They don't necessarily need to know this, but it makes no sense to lie to ourselves). Be responsible for your sexual mood and health and unbelievable things will start happening in your life!

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

A woman who's doing these practices and wearing the Jade egg, in fact, is emitting strong sexual waves, so you have to be careful with these tools that awaken sexuality.

WARNING.Do not use these tools when you're out alone in the evening or at a family gathering : )) or if you meet up with your friend's husband, e.g., to give something to your friend! : )

• 5. The trick. THE SWEET FORBIDDEN FRUIT

Another charming thing in the beginning of the relationship is the prohibition. It's a pure game, but it's so effective that you must learn about it.

All the people want the forbidden fruit. So, it would be great if you created this kind of mood around you ... You want to be with him, but SOMEONE keeps interfering … : )

You can act a little and tell him that there are people who do not want you to see each other. Maybe it's your ex; maybe your parents keep telling you that a man must have a higher education, and their opinion matters to you, and he doesn't have a degree, etc. Create some sort of fence for him that he has to climb. Be inventive! : )

A man must devote some of his time and attention to you so that he would desire to be with you later. In other words, allow a man to invest some energy in you and then he will have the motivation to be with you. Then you will have the opportunity to reveal your own fascinating personality, which he will definitely fall in love with.

Again, remember the excerpt from the drama about Romeo and Juliet. "Our families want this relationship to end, but I keep telling them that I want to be with you, you are so important to me ..." These tricks have worked at all times, so why not use them?

How to use this trick if you're in a long-term relationship?

Women who are in a long-term relationship must remember to let their husbands invest their time, money, and attention in them.

We have to learn to ask a man for help. You really don't have to let him relax and take care of his every need. It's beneficial to push them gently ...

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

Do not immerse yourself in long stories or dramas. It's enough to mention it briefly, to look around nervously while in a café, and that's it. Simplicity is a genius.

And another important thing is to enjoy yourself. If you have decided to play women's games, do it while believing in yourself; enjoy it and do it with your whole heart ...

• 6. The trick. THE WOMAN WEARS PRADA

Another trick that we're going to talk about may sound a bit unpleasant, but after all, it's ‘psychologically correct,’ and it helps us, women, reach our goals.

So, in order to become more attractive, you have to create a luxurious environment around yourself ...

No man wants to have any financial burdens. Just remember how everyone pays attention to a woman who's driving a fancy car and wearing expensive clothes.

As sad as it may be, we have to admit that money attracts everyone.

That's why you should not talk about your financial problems on the first date; it's better to talk about a wealthy uncle in America or a relative who owns a factory, and you are about to visit him, etc. : )

We do not recommend using this trick in a long-term relationship. : ))

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

Again, no confusing stories or drama. You can get caught up in your lies very quickly, and men are not stupid; they realize this. So, it's better to do it with simple hints and not to overdo it in any way.

• 7. The trick. THE MAGIC TOUCH

I'll reveal another NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) trick.

You ask a man to tell you a story about some positive and emotional episode of his life. When he starts speaking, place your hand on his hand. When he finishes—take your hand away.

Gently touch his leg while he's talking ... This little secret is a solid anchor for your relationship.

The next time you do the same action, your man will associate this with pleasant emotions—this action will take him to a pleasant memory. All these things have to be subtle and invisible.

All you need to do is to connect your touch with a pleasant memory of his life.

How can this improve existing relationships?

Remember how fascinated you were with your husband at the beginning of the relationship, how softly you used to touch him, how carefully you listened to him? It's time to recreate all this..

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

When a woman meets a man she has a crush on, she becomes agitated. She is worried whether she looks good, whether he likes her, etc. So if you see that these kinds of things make you nervous, focus on listening—be a good listener who's interested in what a man has to say (remember the first trick: "He's wonderful" : )).

Whatever you do, dear, remember to smile!

They say this for a reason—a smile is the most wonderful part of a woman's body! Just remember how attractive is a woman who's laughing and sincerely smiling!

All the seven tricks work for everyone without any exceptions, so we're sure that you'll get some man's attention very soon.

IMPORTANT!

This will help you take the first steps. It's one thing to intrigue a man but to keep him and to have a sincere relationship is quite another. Therefore, if you want to have a beautiful and promising relationship, you will have to work hard with yourself!

We strongly suggest taking an interest in women's practices, and taking care of your external and internal glow.

Rūta

Everything you think you know about sex is a lie! The media, the porn industry, and all the other ‘reliable’ sources have been lying to you; neither could our mothers nor grandmothers teach us much about it since they considered it a taboo.

They were just giving birth to children and taking a tremendous responsibility for their families.

Therefore, we have to admit that we do not have any sexual education.

Probably none of us ever had the opportunity to attend a Kamasutra or a Geisha school where we could have learned the secrets to the intimate life …

If we take a trip down memory lane to what our parents used to say when they caught us experimenting with our intimate area while looking for some ‘innocent pleasure,’ it would become apparent why this topic remains a taboo for most of us today

Let us also remember the Catholicism and the church ladies who keep saying, “You cannot do that … you will be punished … punished …”

Well, I don’t think you need any more arguments. Now you know why your sex life is the way it is—rare, painful, unsatisfying, exhausting, etc.

The good news is that we can now talk about these things.

We have come across some valuable information from the ancient times, and we can also rely on the Eastern wisdom—where sex life is considered to be much fuller, more sensual, and diverse …

• Your relationship with your husband is mediocre; you almost never have sex, except those times when you're kind of forcing yourself to do it for the sake of peace and quiet ...

• You have never experienced an orgasm while having sex, and you're annoyed by all those love scenes in books and ‘The Big O,’ and the movie Fifty Shades of Grey makes you a little jealous ...

• Deep inside, you feel like something is wrong with you ...

If your sex life is unsatisfactory, and you think it will change while doing nothing about it, then you should know that it’s just an illusion that you should not be holding on to.

Let’s make it more fun and talk about men a little, and let’s make them responsible for the poor quality of sex …

ABOUT MEN (top secret)

Let’s realize that we live in a cold climate, and our men know almost nothing about women as well as the sensual and slow sex.

Most of the men consider sex as a means of tension release, and just a few can give a woman an erotic massage with tantric elements … : )

Most of them do not watch YouTube videos that teach how to turn a woman on. But for some reason, they feel quite good about themselves. : ) Some of them consider themselves to be sexual miracles. : )

They are proud of those ‘15 minutes.’ (We can make fun of it, but deep down, we all know that most of the time, we just pretend to be satisfied.) During those 15 minutes, we keep moaning and hoping it would help end this ‘intoxicating process’ sooner so we can finally go to sleep …

It does get a little better during the holidays since both partners are in a different environment, and they’re more relaxed, but sooner or later, everything returns to the usual.

We can continue blaming men, but then, this article would end very soon. 🙂 This would give very little use, so let’s not get into men and the mistakes they’re making. 🙂 🙂

Let’s keep in mind that men should really start caring about what they should do in bed with a woman, and let’s agree that most of them are inexperienced …

Yes, they do not have the patience; they are always rushing, and they do not give us the attention we want …

But, in fact, we are as much uneducated about this. Therefore, we’d like to invite you to this journey to a better sex life which starts WITH YOU …

Just think about it: we’re always in a hurry; we eat fast, make love fast, dress up quickly, and we’re constantly rushing to places. Not only are we very sensual and open to sex, but we’re also in a constant rush.

We simply do not spend enough time for sex for it to become something wonderful. (The quick orgasm of a man is not wonderful.)

Have you ever stopped for a moment to think that a man and a woman are like musical instruments that should, first of all, sound good on their own, and only then should they try to do a duet?

Anyway, we’ll talk about this a little bit later.

If you’re not going to finish reading this article, here is what you’re going to lose:

• You will have to continue pretending that you enjoy being in bed with him, even though you're doing it out of obligation.

• You are going to end up never having felt a real satisfaction with a man. Maybe you'll find another man and experience nothing with him, and then it will too late to realize that the real reason is you and that you could have dealt with it. (Sometimes women are satisfied by other men, but this is just a short-term solution.)

• You will keep thinking that something is wrong with you if you cannot enjoy sex—but you will never know that you should have paid attention to your intimate area, rather than blame your husband and your health for it, and everything would have changed.

It can be painful and unpleasant for most of us to read this article. Just be patient and don’t rush into expressing your opinion.

The opinion of our parents and grandparents on the intimate life of a man and a woman has a significant impact on us. It is therefore tough to change your attitude toward it.

However, most of the women understand that they’re in need of a sexual revolution, and it should begin in our heads. As soon as we start thinking differently, our body will act accordingly, and the situation will change.

CAUTION:

Please continue reading only if you want to change your attitude to sex and watch your husband and your intimate life change.

If you’re still in that phase when you’re pointing fingers at others, then we wish you good luck with that. You can stop reading now and come back later when you’re ready.

Most of the time, the women who are not willing to change think that it is the MEN who have to change. They express their anger on social networks where only women who think alike pay attention to that.

Try reading the following information.

Try to accept a different opinion and ask yourself: What if this is true?

You can always crawl back into your shell and continue doing what you had been doing for years …

We have all ‘learned’ about sex from television and books. We have been given various ideas how it’s supposed to be, and we’re trying to replicate them. But, in fact, we know almost nothing about sex.

FUN FACT:

Did you know that when the passion disappears (all the hot things tend to cool down eventually), the life of a couple might become wonderful, slow, and conscious? A deep connection between the two is then born as well as love and mutual trust.

Quick sex is tiring and boring!

It’s good enough for a couple of years, and then the search for the new senses begins. Or, in another case, the couple becomes estranged. It’s natural. You get tired of everything; it all becomes too familiar and boring. Therefore, most of the couples that have been living together for a while rather watch TV than spend time together. This is because they have no idea how it could be different.

After having spent a few years living together, many of us become disappointed with the active sex life and start to experience various feminine illnesses.

Mostly, this is because a woman’s body starts sending her signals that it cannot tolerate/span> this behavior (when she’s forcing her body) any longer.

If you want to learn more about it, you can download our detailed ebook “THE NAKED TRUTH About Female Sexuality, Intimate Health, and Orgasm!” (free of charge).

This is a very useful book if you’re experiencing endometriosis, uterine fibroids, ovarian cysts, menstrual disorders, problems getting pregnant, etc.

You can find out more about this book here!

We do not know anything about a different sex life. We don’t know what could be done differently, so we reduce our sexual activity and continue living as friends.

You will soon learn that your sex life can become much more satisfying and reward yourself and your husband with a special intimacy.

My story and myths about sex life

I’ve always been enjoying the world and its 500 shades; therefore, I really wanted to learn how women feel and act in one way or another.

Almost 20 years ago, when I was waitressing on a cruise ship, the perception of life that women from different countries had piqued my curiosity.

During my off days, I would spend my free time in Thai nightclubs talking to young women about how they got into the sex industry and how they felt about it. I was just curious.

While I was searching for my own happiness, I was working as a model and living in America as an illegal immigrant. I used to clean tables and serve drinks in various swinger clubs and other weird bars.

I’m quite familiar with the ladies of the oldest profession and the celebrities of elite parties

I actually had the most diverse friends, and I loved them all; no matter what they did, I would always support them.

While living in Los Angeles, I was in contact with women of various social status, including cover girls, porn stars, erotic movie actresses—the ones that men secretly fantasize about.

I used to work as a waitress in night clubs where I was friends with women who were selling their bodies for money, buying breast implants, stripping, creating illusions for men and making sweet promises to them (that meant nothing) …

I’d just like to add that I really love, respect, and understand the women of all professions.

When I got to know them a little better, I realized that they’re just the same as all the other women: they’re seeking for love, recognition, and a comfortable life. They just chose a different way to achieve it.

One day, I will write an article about the real Hollywood and what is actually happening in its backstage.

But for now, I’d like to emphasize that all those things that we see on the big screen—the hot sex, and the women that always desire it—DO NOT EXIST.

By the way, if you’re interested in reading about the other side of the Hollywood, leave a comment for me to know this. : ) Your comment will motivate me to write about it more.

You can sometimes meet women who are enjoying their sex life, but usually, they do not strike you as such.

Most of the porn stars have never experienced an orgasm; they have never made love, and they keep hoping that they will find the one who is going to understand them and save them.

I used to hold the cigarettes for these ‘actresses’ while they shot an erotic scene, and they would come during their breaks to smoke

I recently realized that if the movie Fifty Shades of Grey were at least a little close to the truth, the ending would be absolutely different …

Yes, the main characters played some simple erotic games (the Hollywood people do this on a much larger scale).

Some of these games might turn you on, but it’s just temporary.

Yes, we all want to be desired, but what the movie Fifty Shades of Grey suggests is a big lie

By the way, I could not finish the book …

For many years, I could not understand the meaning of the phrase ‘a sexy woman.’ I thought I was a sexy woman—I can pretend to be having fun; I can make noises; I can arch my back, and I know some ‘Cosmopolitan’ tricks … I perform the duty regularly.

I was actually tensed and mad at men that they are incapable of doing anything—and it’s true. Most of the men are really incapable of doing anything : ) But at the time, I was incapable as well.

 

It might be hard to admit, but a lot of what happens in bed depends on a woman

It is the woman who shows a man what she likes, what kind of behavior she’s expecting, and what pace she likes.

So, on my journey to sexuality, I had to find out what had kept me from feeling good, the reason behind feeling nothing or feeling pain and then forget everything I ever knew about sex and start over.

There’s no way that I’m already done, but I am now taking responsibility for my sex life.

I can honestly show my husband what I want, how I feel, and accept him with love and be relaxed. I now know much more about my body, and I can feel much more pleasure than ever before.

I’m just on the same path as you are

I’m looking for ways to feel better and to love myself more. Therefore, this is by no means a training. I’m just sharing my experience that may inspire you to change your sex life.

Us, women, can enjoy ourselves and feel the satisfaction, but first of all, we have to understand where we’re going and what our goal is.

Eastern wisdom or words that have changed my attitude

It is much more difficult to find information about the satisfaction not only to the body but also to the feminine heart. I had to travel a lot to learn about it.

Most spiritual teachings avoid talking about such things.

It is much easier to talk about other things: perfection, a heart filled with love, and so on.

But I was a down-to-earth woman who wanted to have a family, a relationship with a man, and to have children

That’s why I had to learn how to connect the sexual world with the spiritual world and to invite a loving man into it.

Then another phase began—I had to learn how to keep intimacy at later phases of the relationship and how not to lose the sparkle in everyday life.

My first tantric instructor made me take responsibility for my own sexuality six years ago by telling me this:

“Most often a woman introduces a man to the intimate world and invites him to have a completely different kind of sex.

A woman can lead a man to the depths of the soul, and he can learn about the feelings of higher-level and God through her. He will never forget such a woman. They can both start feeling the intimacy and finally get to know each other better.”

It all sounded very mysteriously; I didn’t quite understand what she was saying and what those deeper feelings were. But since I was quite familiar with the Hollywood sexual image, I had nothing to lose. : )

That was how my intimate journey started; I learned a lot, which helped me with my self-confidence and loving myself

I’m always writing about this.

It is hard to describe how a different relationship between a man and a woman looks like. Each of us opens a new gate.

I’d like to share the methods that I found with you so they would guide you to the right direction.

Where to start and how to change the situation?

First of all, a woman must decide she wants to change her sex life and experience intimacy and pleasure with a man.

A woman must look for certain literature and information that could help her with the right path (the articles of ‘Chocolate4Soul,’ tantric literature, books about the secrets to woman’s orgasm, etc.; if you read in English, you can send me a message, and I will tell you about some useful books and give you recommendations).

Then a woman must awaken her intimate area, which is frozen in most of us or prohibited, denied, ashamed, etc.

After all, if you want to be a part of a duet, first of all, you have to get to know the musical instrument and learn to play it by yourself.

So here’s a set of practices which will help you learn about your body and awaken insensitive and painful areas: “INTIMATE SECRET. How to bring back health, passion, and pleasure to your sexual area?”

Most of us do not know what gives us pleasure. Those who are slightly luckier can experience a clitoral orgasm and think that this is the sexual climax.

The set of practices ‘Intimate Secret’ will help you put theory into practice. You will be doing what your parents prohibited you from doing, and eventually, you will be enjoying yourself.

Also, the practices described in the ‘Intimate Secret’ help women cure various illnesses because, after many years of neglect, her intimate area starts getting love, attention, a soft touch, and then, as you might already know, miracles start happening.

The truth is that no man will give us pleasure if, deep down inside, we remain insensitive and tense

In this scenario, The ‘Chocolate4Soul’ Nephrite Egg can help. It gently massages the body part that had been neglected and ignored for a while; it makes the blood flow to it, which brings it oxygen and nutrients.

Most of the feminine illnesses go away, and the intimate area starts to thrive. Sensitivity and sexual desire come back. Many of us do not feel the pleasure or all those G-, U-spots, etc., that are described in magazines, but with the help of the Jade egg and the practices, it all changes.

You can read more about the Chocolate Soul and Jade Egg HERE!

And if you want to start loving your body and change your attitude towards sex, we suggest you read the set of practices ‘The Magic of Sexuality.’.

Everything you'll find in this set is magical, feminine, and unusual.

These practices will help you feel your energetic power, and you will learn how to treat yourself and your intimate area differently.

You will realize what a great gift you are to a man. You will learn to invite him to your body with joy and consciousness.

For those who are expecting quick results, I suggest you attend women's seminars. (If you're interested, and you feel that you'd like to learn more, send us a message, and we'll give you the contacts of foreign teachers who work on sexuality.)

Why is it worth doing?

First of all, it's imperative to remember that we are doing this for ourselves. But because we are down-to-earth women, and we want to please our men, let's do it for them as well.

A man finds nothing sexier and more beautiful than a woman who is enjoying his touch, feeling the pleasure, expressing her feelings, and accepting him with her whole body. A man will never forget such a woman.

He will feel that he has a great gift, and he will want to reward such a woman with love and care.

It doesn't happen in a day, but as soon as you start your sexual journey, it all starts to change. A woman becomes interested in herself. She connects with a man through new experiences and not through frustrating and painful sex ...

I could write a whole book about how I felt and what I experienced while searching for fulfillment in life and how much tears I poured when I finally felt my body ...

However, I would like to anonymously share the experiences of other women who have given me their permission to do that.

These testimonies come from women who were eager to change their sex life and took action.

Here's a testimony from one wise woman ...

<em"My husband and I were good friends; we would make love just out of obligation once a month for the sake of peace and quiet, you know? But I almost never feel anything. I'm not even sure if I've ever experienced an orgasm ... But for many years, I have been saying that it is my husband's fault—who is absolutely not creative in bed. He only tries to reach the goal; I help him a little with some acting, and then it's all done.

“This kept on going for many years until one day we got a divorce. Then I met another man.

“The sex was unpleasant and he was unable to loosen me up. Finally, our relationship ended since he wanted sex, and for me, it was too unpleasant.

“I'm now dating another man whom I'm crazy about. We are so close. Only this time, I'm avoiding intimacy, because I'm worried that I might be disappointed. I keep thinking, Maybe there's something that I could do that this time, it would be better?"

We have been talking to this woman for a while. I watched her journey ...

This woman who wanted to feel good with her new lover was doing sexual practices for a month (it helped her feel that her body is wonderful and holy).

The practices also helped her with the feeling of shame which was always getting in the way.

Then she started doing some physical exercises that helped her awaken the pleasure spots. She also started doing contraction exercises, wearing Jade egg, and exploring herself further.

She was stroking and touching herself (with the help of the set of practices ‘Intimate Secret’) until she noticed that when she touched one part of her body, it would hurt, while touching some other, it was giving her pleasure.

When the time had come for her to make love to her man, she was an entirely different woman—calm, open, understanding her feminine value.

Her intimate area was lively and sensual, and when her man started rushing, she was brave enough to stop him and gently show him what she likes ...

We all deserve good sex and wonderful, deep, and connecting moments

Here are some testimonies from women who have kept on working on themselves and taking care of their sexuality ...

-"…Remember you told us that you believed in us ... At the time, I was almost unable to see our future together. And yet, there were so many miracles still to come. Our relationship is just as it was in the beginning; he keeps asking me what I have done to him. : ) Maybe it's the pheromones or the Jade Egg; I actually thought that this is impossible after forty."

- "Hello Ruta, I felt the need to share my experience after the practices about the rose in the womb and the pulsating shiny ball. I had this desire in me to have fulfilling sex already before the practices. I finally realized what it is ... "

- "It's just recently that I've experienced a different kind of sex and an amplitude of feelings: joy, happiness, longing, disappointment, suffering ... It felt like I have experienced all the possible feelings, and they made me complete. I wanted to cry and laugh at the same time. For me, this experience was a great gift from the universe, which came to me with the help of practices and my husband ... I never thought I could feel this much ‘down there’ ..."

In conclusion ...

Don't ignore it and think that it's only for the young women, for others, and not you ...

This is just your mind attempting to escape the unknown territory.

You decide. You can keep burying your head in the sand or pull it out, shake the sand away, and change the situation.

I'm delighted that more and more wise women stop talking nonsense and start taking care of their sexuality ...

More and more women stop playing the victim games (being ill, poor women whose men are inattentive males), and they take responsibility for their quality of life. You may be one of them.

Just start from where you are right now ...

Let us invite you to create a wonderful intimate life full of sensuality, touches, tenderness, and consciousness. This is the kind of sex that heals a woman and gives her man wings ...

Ruta.

p.s. You can find me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rutabanioni/