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7 most effective PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS that will make a man fall in love with you in a week! (Works for couples as well)

by Ruta B. 2018-07-07

7 most effective PSYCHOLOGICAL TRICKS that will make a man fall in love with you in a week! (Works for couples as well)

The women who know about this have an incredible advantage over other women.

Even if you’re not planning to use them to seduce a man, you must be aware of them if there is another woman using these tricks so that you could immediately recognize them.

These short and simple exercises will also help women whose relationships have gone cold. If a man does not pay attention to you, read all the steps and choose a few that you can use today!

The things that I’ll reveal in this article are taught by NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) masters in various seduction schools.

I’d like to WARN you that we’re going to talk about manipulation (even though I hate this word)…

Manipulation means that you treat and talk to someone to change their behavior or to get something from them—what you need.

Yeah, yeah, it’s not nice … blah-blah-blah. But we’re living in a world of manipulations.

We subconsciously manipulate our husbands and children, making them feel ashamed and guilty. The same is happening with us: some people keep manipulating us consciously; others—unknowingly.

Therefore, I think that a woman must be aware of different female tricks (even though they’re a bit manipulative).

The era of the good girls and modest homemakers has ended, and a modern woman knows how to enjoy life, knows her value and lives a colorful and comfortable life.

I think a woman must know how to attract a man’s attention (or to push a certain psychological button) rather than jump into another relationship that goes nowhere. And what do you think?

We’ve been wounded and hurt so many times, so why not embrace the secrets of women as well as psychological tricks that have been known for thousands of years? With the help of these, we can get what we need.

As charming as we are, there are certain laws of attraction among people in this world, so not knowing them is utterly silly.

I came up with the idea to write this article because recently, we’ve received a number of calls and letters with women telling us how much effort they’re putting into relationships with their men; they go and see them, pour their hearts to them, reveal their deepest desires, and they do not show any interest, neither do they appreciate their efforts.

No matter how hard it is to admit, dear, at the beginning of the relationship,no one is really interested in our true personality (full of wounds and distrust in oneself and others).

Therefore, it is advisable to “hide” it a little in the beginning …

Once you have established a relationship and have this energy flowing between you (when you have something in common), when you have attracted a man, then you can show your true self and involve him in your life and its small and big problems.

Why can I write about it?

I met a lot of women and men of different nationalities, age, and social status while traveling the world and living in Los Angeles for 11 years.

As sincere and true our relationships were, I can now honestly say that we always wanted something from each other. Unfortunately, we never talked about it.

I was very inexperienced at the time, and I wanted to find my place in the world and meet someone special.

I have slipped many times and had some painful experiences with men and my friends.

I am exactly the same woman as you are.

The only difference is that I have a lot of different experiences that I can share with you.

It’s a pity that I didn’t know these tricks before; they would have made my life a lot easier.

I can’t even remember how I much I cried because of all the failed relationships, traitor friends, and people who were only being friendly with me in order to get something from me.

However, no one is interested in a woman who is constantly calling, texting, and showing her wounded, hurt, and attention-seeking personality in the beginning of the relationship!

Just think about it; if a man gave you all his heart the first day you met, you wouldn’t probably need it.

Everyone likes to pursue and conquer someone, especially men.

I can remember how much I suffered when I rushed to open my heart to them, cared for them too much…, and they kept ignoring me, not picking up their phone; they would show up whenever they felt like it (well, I think you know what I’m talking about, so I don’t have to go on).

So, let me introduce you to the main tricks, and let’s use them without judging ourselves!

Here are the best manipulative tricks that will help you seduce a man that you desire!

Although I’d like to emphasize that even if you’ll be using these tricks, you have to remember that you should be true and honest about it; otherwise, it will all turn against you.

Another thing that you must remember is that these tricks are a short-term solution.

You have to start with yourself since a sincere and beautiful relationship is only possible if people are truthful and open.

  • 1. The trick. "HE'S WONDERFUL"

 80% of your communication should be talking about him and not about you and your problems. He is the most interesting, the coolest, and the most masculine. His voice and stories are music to your ears and eyes…

If you have a crush on a certain man, create conditions for him to ‘shine’; then he will feel very good, and he will want to keep coming back to you. 80% of your time spent together should be talking about ‘how wonderful he is.’

Listen to him talk on various subjects—about his work, goals, childhood. Walk him through his pleasant memories, etc. No talking about your failures, health, or financial issues, and no deep conversations about your soul.

Ask for his opinion, advice, help …

The secret code for implementing this trick is “INTERESTED AND EASY.”

So here are the best manipulative tricks that will help you seduce a man that you desire!

There’s no way you can offload your problems onto another person at the beginning of the relationship. This is the first step to destroying a relationship, which you must avoid.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

If your relationship has gone cold, and your husband doesn’t hear you, it means that the things you’ve been recently saying to him have been particularly unpleasant. If you want to be seen and heard again, learn to listen to your man and to praise him.

A lot of women, especially Russians, can really admire a man. If you have such a friend or colleague who admires your husband so much, you have to be cautious about it.

This situation can go in two ways:

– you must pay more attention to your husband and praise him for being important and strong (remember how grandmothers taught us: “If you’re getting some at home, you won’t be looking for it elsewhere.”);

– or another easier option: get rid of the opponent or (if it is your friend, which was my case) ask her to ‘turn off’ those emotions and stop adoring and praising your husband.

  • 2. The trick. A DATE FULL OF ADRENALINE

It’s another simple trick, which would be perfect at the beginning of the relationship. Get yourselves into a situation where both your hearts would beat as one.

I’m not suggesting anything dangerous, but you can try taking something from a shop (accidentally), take a ride on a scary roller coaster, go under a bridge, go to a bar and leave without paying, etc. : )

All of these situations are perfectly shown in the movie ‘9½ weeks’ as well as in the drama of Romeo and Juliet.

These films do not teach us how to have a sincere relationship that we desire so much, but they give you a lot of ideas how to make the relationship passionate.

This is a really important moment in the relationship. It’s classic, so it’s better to remember it and use it from time to time.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

Remember playfulness. We are often very serious, and we forget that we can be spontaneous and unpredictable.

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

It is imperative not to be stuck in the adrenaline period and to make sure that the relationship moves to the next stage. This phase can be so enjoyable that it’s a little bit scary to move on. The Russians call this stage of the relationship a Sweetness (Flower) period.

Unfortunately, there is no place for commitment; there’s only drama and adrenaline.

  • 3. The trick. DEFICIT. KEEP HIM HUNGRY

Use this trick and make sure there is not much of you in the relationship. Maybe your mother taught you to take a step forward, and then take a step back.

Remember him. Here you are beside him, being interested in what he has to say, and the next day, everything is different … you don’t have any time to meet up or text back.

Most importantly: do not ‘overdose’ yourself. If you’re talking, keep something for yourself. Do not end your sentences and stories. In other words, leave behind a lot of open and unlocked doors behind you…

Of course, you can send him a sensual picture or a sexy message, but do not overdo it. A man you’re dating must always remain ‘hungry’; he has to want something from you all the time.

How to use this trick if you’re in a long-term relationship?

Women must simply remember their husband. Not as a child, not as an object that needs to be taken care of, but as a man!

Send him a sexy message or your picture; act more brave than usual. Try to have a new affair with your husband. : )

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

It’s very important not to overdo it, and don’t play with your femininity too much (don’t get stuck coming up with ideas of how a real woman must act).

Most femininity schools teach women not to take the initiative, but we encourage you to try different tactics and see what helps you with your desires best.

Most femininity schools teach women not to take the initiative, but we encourage you to try different tactics and see what helps you with your desires best.

Don’t follow the rules; look for what’s best for you in that moment and create your own rules.

  • 4. The trick. NOTES ON SEXUALITY

A woman who is afraid of sexual relations and has hidden her sexuality loses all her charm. However, this does not mean that you have to be pushy and jump into bed with him.

I am talking about your feminine energy. Your behavior, movements, face, clothes, and facial expression are sending a double message. It’s enough for a man to take a short look at you, and it becomes clear whether you’re blossoming or you have gone cold …

A contemporary woman who doesn’t want to age, who wants to keep enjoying sex and intimate relationships, must become interested in her sexuality and her intimate zone.

Awaken your intimate area yourself. A woman who keeps complaining that her husband never seduces her, etc., has to end this performance and take care of her pheromones and energy herself.

A woman who is cold and keeps waiting for someone to compliment her soon becomes unfashionable, and a woman who’s ready to take life into her own hands replaces her.

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It makes no sense to wait for something magical to happen in your life and for him to awaken your body.

It's better to take care of your sexuality yourself and to share your love and feminine energy rather than wait until he turns you on or surprises you.

Until I took an interest in my sexuality, I had to pretend a lot—avoid and pretend. So, if I hadn't stopped bothering my husband about it, I wouldn't have been able to enjoy my good health, happy relationship and great sex life now.

When a woman is enjoying herself, her body releases a certain smell and pheromones.

There's no time to lose, honey. You have to take care of your intimate area RIGHT NOW!

We all need to learn to be selfish in bed.

Such a woman is a real gift for a man since he can give her pleasure and enjoy it himself! (But we'll talk about it more in the other ‘Chocolate for Soul’ articles.)

How to use this trick if you're in a long-term relationship?

As soon as you feel that your sexual energy is gone, and you have become a housewife who's constantly taking care of home, when your husband touches you, you just shame him with your look and start telling those stories of how tired you are and your physical pain (we do this to make him feel guilty: "Can't you see how hard I'm trying for all of you, I'm constantly suffering from inflammations and yet you want to have sex with me! You don’t have any shame!"

They don't necessarily need to know this, but it makes no sense to lie to ourselves). Be responsible for your sexual mood and health and unbelievable things will start happening in your life!

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

A woman who's doing these practices and wearing the Jade egg, in fact, is emitting strong sexual waves, so you have to be careful with these tools that awaken sexuality.

WARNING.Do not use these tools when you're out alone in the evening or at a family gathering : )) or if you meet up with your friend's husband, e.g., to give something to your friend! : )

  • 5. The trick. THE SWEET FORBIDDEN FRUIT

Another charming thing in the beginning of the relationship is the prohibition. It's a pure game, but it's so effective that you must learn about it.

All the people want the forbidden fruit. So, it would be great if you created this kind of mood around you ... You want to be with him, but SOMEONE keeps interfering … : )

You can act a little and tell him that there are people who do not want you to see each other. Maybe it's your ex; maybe your parents keep telling you that a man must have a higher education, and their opinion matters to you, and he doesn't have a degree, etc. Create some sort of fence for him that he has to climb. Be inventive! : )

A man must devote some of his time and attention to you so that he would desire to be with you later. In other words, allow a man to invest some energy in you and then he will have the motivation to be with you. Then you will have the opportunity to reveal your own fascinating personality, which he will definitely fall in love with.

Again, remember the excerpt from the drama about Romeo and Juliet. "Our families want this relationship to end, but I keep telling them that I want to be with you, you are so important to me ..." These tricks have worked at all times, so why not use them?

How to use this trick if you're in a long-term relationship?

Women who are in a long-term relationship must remember to let their husbands invest their time, money, and attention in them.

We have to learn to ask a man for help. You really don't have to let him relax and take care of his every need. It's beneficial to push them gently ...

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

Do not immerse yourself in long stories or dramas. It's enough to mention it briefly, to look around nervously while in a café, and that's it. Simplicity is a genius.

And another important thing is to enjoy yourself. If you have decided to play women's games, do it while believing in yourself; enjoy it and do it with your whole heart ...

  • 6. The trick. THE WOMAN WEARS PRADA

Another trick that we're going to talk about may sound a bit unpleasant, but after all, it's ‘psychologically correct,’ and it helps us, women, reach our goals.

So, in order to become more attractive, you have to create a luxurious environment around yourself ...

No man wants to have any financial burdens. Just remember how everyone pays attention to a woman who's driving a fancy car and wearing expensive clothes.

As sad as it may be, we have to admit that money attracts everyone.

That's why you should not talk about your financial problems on the first date; it's better to talk about a wealthy uncle in America or a relative who owns a factory, and you are about to visit him, etc. : )

We do not recommend using this trick in a long-term relationship. : ))

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

Again, no confusing stories or drama. You can get caught up in your lies very quickly, and men are not stupid; they realize this. So, it's better to do it with simple hints and not to overdo it in any way.

  • 7. The trick. THE MAGIC TOUCH

I'll reveal another NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) trick.

You ask a man to tell you a story about some positive and emotional episode of his life. When he starts speaking, place your hand on his hand. When he finishes—take your hand away.

Gently touch his leg while he's talking ... This little secret is a solid anchor for your relationship.

The next time you do the same action, your man will associate this with pleasant emotions—this action will take him to a pleasant memory. All these things have to be subtle and invisible.

All you need to do is to connect your touch with a pleasant memory of his life.

How can this improve existing relationships?

Remember how fascinated you were with your husband at the beginning of the relationship, how softly you used to touch him, how carefully you listened to him? It's time to recreate all this..

What mistakes and difficulties can you encounter in this situation?

When a woman meets a man she has a crush on, she becomes agitated. She is worried whether she looks good, whether he likes her, etc. So if you see that these kinds of things make you nervous, focus on listening—be a good listener who's interested in what a man has to say (remember the first trick: "He's wonderful" : )).

Whatever you do, dear, remember to smile!

They say this for a reason—a smile is the most wonderful part of a woman's body! Just remember how attractive is a woman who's laughing and sincerely smiling!

All the seven tricks work for everyone without any exceptions, so we're sure that you'll get some man's attention very soon.

IMPORTANT!

This will help you take the first steps. It's one thing to intrigue a man but to keep him and to have a sincere relationship is quite another. Therefore, if you want to have a beautiful and promising relationship, you will have to work hard with yourself!

We strongly suggest taking an interest in women's practices, and taking care of your external and internal glow.

Rūta

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What should you do if you lost the desire for sex? (And you don’t even want to look at your partner)

by Ruta B. 2018-07-07

FROM: Ruta Banioni (39), Co-founder of Chocolate4soul.com. Thursay 8:42 AM

Everything you think you know about sex is a lie! The media, the porn industry, and all the other ‘reliable’ sources have been lying to you; neither could our mothers nor grandmothers teach us much about it since they considered it a taboo.

They were just giving birth to children and taking a tremendous responsibility for their families.

Therefore, we have to admit that we do not have any sexual education.

Probably none of us ever had the opportunity to attend a Kamasutra or a Geisha school where we could have learned the secrets to the intimate life …

If we take a trip down memory lane to what our parents used to say when they caught us experimenting with our intimate area while looking for some ‘innocent pleasure,’ it would become apparent why this topic remains a taboo for most of us today

Let us also remember the Catholicism and the church ladies who keep saying, “You cannot do that … you will be punished … punished …”

Well, I don’t think you need any more arguments. Now you know why your sex life is the way it is—rare, painful, unsatisfying, exhausting, etc.

The good news is that we can now talk about these things.

We have come across some valuable information from the ancient times, and we can also rely on the Eastern wisdom—where sex life is considered to be much fuller, more sensual, and diverse …

  • Your relationship with your husband is mediocre; you almost never have sex, except those times when you're kind of forcing yourself to do it for the sake of peace and quiet ...
  • You have never experienced an orgasm while having sex, and you're annoyed by all those love scenes in books and ‘The Big O,’ and the movie Fifty Shades of Grey makes you a little jealous ...
  • Deep inside, you feel like something is wrong with you ...

If your sex life is unsatisfactory, and you think it will change while doing nothing about it, then you should know that it’s just an illusion that you should not be holding on to.

Let’s make it more fun and talk about men a little, and let’s make them responsible for the poor quality of sex …

ABOUT MEN (top secret)

Let’s realize that we live in a cold climate, and our men know almost nothing about women as well as the sensual and slow sex.

Most of the men consider sex as a means of tension release, and just a few can give a woman an erotic massage with tantric elements … : )

Most of them do not watch YouTube videos that teach how to turn a woman on. But for some reason, they feel quite good about themselves. : ) Some of them consider themselves to be sexual miracles. : )

They are proud of those ‘15 minutes.’ (We can make fun of it, but deep down, we all know that most of the time, we just pretend to be satisfied.) During those 15 minutes, we keep moaning and hoping it would help end this ‘intoxicating process’ sooner so we can finally go to sleep …

It does get a little better during the holidays since both partners are in a different environment, and they’re more relaxed, but sooner or later, everything returns to the usual.

We can continue blaming men, but then, this article would end very soon. 🙂 This would give very little use, so let’s not get into men and the mistakes they’re making. 🙂 🙂

Let’s keep in mind that men should really start caring about what they should do in bed with a woman, and let’s agree that most of them are inexperienced …

Yes, they do not have the patience; they are always rushing, and they do not give us the attention we want …

But, in fact, we are as much uneducated about this. Therefore, we’d like to invite you to this journey to a better sex life which starts WITH YOU …

Just think about it: we’re always in a hurry; we eat fast, make love fast, dress up quickly, and we’re constantly rushing to places. Not only are we very sensual and open to sex, but we’re also in a constant rush.

We simply do not spend enough time for sex for it to become something wonderful. (The quick orgasm of a man is not wonderful.)

Have you ever stopped for a moment to think that a man and a woman are like musical instruments that should, first of all, sound good on their own, and only then should they try to do a duet?

Anyway, we’ll talk about this a little bit later.

If you’re not going to finish reading this article, here is what you’re going to lose:

  • You will have to continue pretending that you enjoy being in bed with him, even though you're doing it out of obligation.
  • You are going to end up never having felt a real satisfaction with a man. Maybe you'll find another man and experience nothing with him, and then it will too late to realize that the real reason is you and that you could have dealt with it. (Sometimes women are satisfied by other men, but this is just a short-term solution.)
  • You will keep thinking that something is wrong with you if you cannot enjoy sex—but you will never know that you should have paid attention to your intimate area, rather than blame your husband and your health for it, and everything would have changed.

It can be painful and unpleasant for most of us to read this article. Just be patient and don’t rush into expressing your opinion.

The opinion of our parents and grandparents on the intimate life of a man and a woman has a significant impact on us. It is therefore tough to change your attitude toward it.

However, most of the women understand that they’re in need of a sexual revolution, and it should begin in our heads. As soon as we start thinking differently, our body will act accordingly, and the situation will change.

CAUTION:

Please continue reading only if you want to change your attitude to sex and watch your husband and your intimate life change.

If you’re still in that phase when you’re pointing fingers at others, then we wish you good luck with that. You can stop reading now and come back later when you’re ready.

Most of the time, the women who are not willing to change think that it is the MEN who have to change. They express their anger on social networks where only women who think alike pay attention to that.

Try reading the following information.

Try to accept a different opinion and ask yourself: What if this is true?

You can always crawl back into your shell and continue doing what you had been doing for years …

We have all ‘learned’ about sex from television and books. We have been given various ideas how it’s supposed to be, and we’re trying to replicate them. But, in fact, we know almost nothing about sex.

FUN FACT:

Did you know that when the passion disappears (all the hot things tend to cool down eventually), the life of a couple might become wonderful, slow, and conscious? A deep connection between the two is then born as well as love and mutual trust.

Quick sex is tiring and boring!

It’s good enough for a couple of years, and then the search for the new senses begins. Or, in another case, the couple becomes estranged. It’s natural. You get tired of everything; it all becomes too familiar and boring. Therefore, most of the couples that have been living together for a while rather watch TV than spend time together. This is because they have no idea how it could be different.

After having spent a few years living together, many of us become disappointed with the active sex life and start to experience various feminine illnesses.

Mostly, this is because a woman’s body starts sending her signals that it cannot tolerate/span> this behavior (when she’s forcing her body) any longer.

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We do not know anything about a different sex life. We don’t know what could be done differently, so we reduce our sexual activity and continue living as friends.

You will soon learn that your sex life can become much more satisfying and reward yourself and your husband with a special intimacy.

My story and myths about sex life

I’ve always been enjoying the world and its 500 shades; therefore, I really wanted to learn how women feel and act in one way or another.

Almost 20 years ago, when I was waitressing on a cruise ship, the perception of life that women from different countries had piqued my curiosity.

During my off days, I would spend my free time in Thai nightclubs talking to young women about how they got into the sex industry and how they felt about it. I was just curious.

While I was searching for my own happiness, I was working as a model and living in America as an illegal immigrant. I used to clean tables and serve drinks in various swinger clubs and other weird bars.

I’m quite familiar with the ladies of the oldest profession and the celebrities of elite parties

I actually had the most diverse friends, and I loved them all; no matter what they did, I would always support them.

While living in Los Angeles, I was in contact with women of various social status, including cover girls, porn stars, erotic movie actresses—the ones that men secretly fantasize about.

I used to work as a waitress in night clubs where I was friends with women who were selling their bodies for money, buying breast implants, stripping, creating illusions for men and making sweet promises to them (that meant nothing) …

I’d just like to add that I really love, respect, and understand the women of all professions.

When I got to know them a little better, I realized that they’re just the same as all the other women: they’re seeking for love, recognition, and a comfortable life. They just chose a different way to achieve it.

One day, I will write an article about the real Hollywood and what is actually happening in its backstage.

But for now, I’d like to emphasize that all those things that we see on the big screen—the hot sex, and the women that always desire it—DO NOT EXIST.

By the way, if you’re interested in reading about the other side of the Hollywood, leave a comment for me to know this. : ) Your comment will motivate me to write about it more.

You can sometimes meet women who are enjoying their sex life, but usually, they do not strike you as such.

Most of the porn stars have never experienced an orgasm; they have never made love, and they keep hoping that they will find the one who is going to understand them and save them.

I used to hold the cigarettes for these ‘actresses’ while they shot an erotic scene, and they would come during their breaks to smoke

I recently realized that if the movie Fifty Shades of Grey were at least a little close to the truth, the ending would be absolutely different …

Yes, the main characters played some simple erotic games (the Hollywood people do this on a much larger scale).

Some of these games might turn you on, but it’s just temporary.

Yes, we all want to be desired, but what the movie Fifty Shades of Grey suggests is a big lie

By the way, I could not finish the book …

For many years, I could not understand the meaning of the phrase ‘a sexy woman.’ I thought I was a sexy woman—I can pretend to be having fun; I can make noises; I can arch my back, and I know some ‘Cosmopolitan’ tricks … I perform the duty regularly.

I was actually tensed and mad at men that they are incapable of doing anything—and it’s true. Most of the men are really incapable of doing anything : ) But at the time, I was incapable as well.

 

It might be hard to admit, but a lot of what happens in bed depends on a woman

It is the woman who shows a man what she likes, what kind of behavior she’s expecting, and what pace she likes.

So, on my journey to sexuality, I had to find out what had kept me from feeling good, the reason behind feeling nothing or feeling pain and then forget everything I ever knew about sex and start over.

There’s no way that I’m already done, but I am now taking responsibility for my sex life.

I can honestly show my husband what I want, how I feel, and accept him with love and be relaxed. I now know much more about my body, and I can feel much more pleasure than ever before.

I’m just on the same path as you are

I’m looking for ways to feel better and to love myself more. Therefore, this is by no means a training. I’m just sharing my experience that may inspire you to change your sex life.

Us, women, can enjoy ourselves and feel the satisfaction, but first of all, we have to understand where we’re going and what our goal is.

Eastern wisdom or words that have changed my attitude

It is much more difficult to find information about the satisfaction not only to the body but also to the feminine heart. I had to travel a lot to learn about it.

Most spiritual teachings avoid talking about such things.

It is much easier to talk about other things: perfection, a heart filled with love, and so on.

But I was a down-to-earth woman who wanted to have a family, a relationship with a man, and to have children

That’s why I had to learn how to connect the sexual world with the spiritual world and to invite a loving man into it.

Then another phase began—I had to learn how to keep intimacy at later phases of the relationship and how not to lose the sparkle in everyday life.

My first tantric instructor made me take responsibility for my own sexuality six years ago by telling me this:

“Most often a woman introduces a man to the intimate world and invites him to have a completely different kind of sex.

A woman can lead a man to the depths of the soul, and he can learn about the feelings of higher-level and God through her. He will never forget such a woman. They can both start feeling the intimacy and finally get to know each other better.”

It all sounded very mysteriously; I didn’t quite understand what she was saying and what those deeper feelings were. But since I was quite familiar with the Hollywood sexual image, I had nothing to lose. : )

That was how my intimate journey started; I learned a lot, which helped me with my self-confidence and loving myself

I’m always writing about this.

It is hard to describe how a different relationship between a man and a woman looks like. Each of us opens a new gate.

I’d like to share the methods that I found with you so they would guide you to the right direction.

Where to start and how to change the situation?

First of all, a woman must decide she wants to change her sex life and experience intimacy and pleasure with a man.

A woman must look for certain literature and information that could help her with the right path (the articles of ‘Chocolate4Soul,’ tantric literature, books about the secrets to woman’s orgasm, etc.; if you read in English, you can send me a message, and I will tell you about some useful books and give you recommendations).

Then a woman must awaken her intimate area, which is frozen in most of us or prohibited, denied, ashamed, etc.

After all, if you want to be a part of a duet, first of all, you have to get to know the musical instrument and learn to play it by yourself.

So here’s a set of practices which will help you learn about your body and awaken insensitive and painful areas: “INTIMATE SECRET. How to bring back health, passion, and pleasure to your sexual area?”

Most of us do not know what gives us pleasure. Those who are slightly luckier can experience a clitoral orgasm and think that this is the sexual climax.

The set of practices ‘Intimate Secret’ will help you put theory into practice. You will be doing what your parents prohibited you from doing, and eventually, you will be enjoying yourself.

Also, the practices described in the ‘Intimate Secret’ help women cure various illnesses because, after many years of neglect, her intimate area starts getting love, attention, a soft touch, and then, as you might already know, miracles start happening.

The truth is that no man will give us pleasure if, deep down inside, we remain insensitive and tense

In this scenario, The ‘Chocolate4Soul’ Nephrite Egg can help. It gently massages the body part that had been neglected and ignored for a while; it makes the blood flow to it, which brings it oxygen and nutrients.


Most of the feminine illnesses go away, and the intimate area starts to thrive. Sensitivity and sexual desire come back. Many of us do not feel the pleasure or all those G-, U-spots, etc., that are described in magazines, but with the help of the Jade egg and the practices, it all changes.

You can read more about the Chocolate Soul and Jade Egg HERE!

And if you want to start loving your body and change your attitude towards sex, we suggest you read the set of practices ‘The Magic of Sexuality.’.

Everything you'll find in this set is magical, feminine, and unusual.

These practices will help you feel your energetic power, and you will learn how to treat yourself and your intimate area differently.

You will realize what a great gift you are to a man. You will learn to invite him to your body with joy and consciousness.

For those who are expecting quick results, I suggest you attend women's seminars. (If you're interested, and you feel that you'd like to learn more, send us a message, and we'll give you the contacts of foreign teachers who work on sexuality.)

Why is it worth doing?

First of all, it's imperative to remember that we are doing this for ourselves. But because we are down-to-earth women, and we want to please our men, let's do it for them as well.

A man finds nothing sexier and more beautiful than a woman who is enjoying his touch, feeling the pleasure, expressing her feelings, and accepting him with her whole body. A man will never forget such a woman.

He will feel that he has a great gift, and he will want to reward such a woman with love and care.

It doesn't happen in a day, but as soon as you start your sexual journey, it all starts to change. A woman becomes interested in herself. She connects with a man through new experiences and not through frustrating and painful sex ...

I could write a whole book about how I felt and what I experienced while searching for fulfillment in life and how much tears I poured when I finally felt my body ...

However, I would like to anonymously share the experiences of other women who have given me their permission to do that.

These testimonies come from women who were eager to change their sex life and took action.

Here's a testimony from one wise woman ...

<em"My husband and I were good friends; we would make love just out of obligation once a month for the sake of peace and quiet, you know? But I almost never feel anything. I'm not even sure if I've ever experienced an orgasm ... But for many years, I have been saying that it is my husband's fault—who is absolutely not creative in bed. He only tries to reach the goal; I help him a little with some acting, and then it's all done.

“This kept on going for many years until one day we got a divorce. Then I met another man.

“The sex was unpleasant and he was unable to loosen me up. Finally, our relationship ended since he wanted sex, and for me, it was too unpleasant.

“I'm now dating another man whom I'm crazy about. We are so close. Only this time, I'm avoiding intimacy, because I'm worried that I might be disappointed. I keep thinking, Maybe there's something that I could do that this time, it would be better?"

We have been talking to this woman for a while. I watched her journey ...

This woman who wanted to feel good with her new lover was doing sexual practices for a month (it helped her feel that her body is wonderful and holy).

The practices also helped her with the feeling of shame which was always getting in the way.

Then she started doing some physical exercises that helped her awaken the pleasure spots. She also started doing contraction exercises, wearing Jade egg, and exploring herself further.

She was stroking and touching herself (with the help of the set of practices ‘Intimate Secret’) until she noticed that when she touched one part of her body, it would hurt, while touching some other, it was giving her pleasure.

When the time had come for her to make love to her man, she was an entirely different woman—calm, open, understanding her feminine value.

Her intimate area was lively and sensual, and when her man started rushing, she was brave enough to stop him and gently show him what she likes ...

We all deserve good sex and wonderful, deep, and connecting moments

Here are some testimonies from women who have kept on working on themselves and taking care of their sexuality ...

-"…Remember you told us that you believed in us ... At the time, I was almost unable to see our future together. And yet, there were so many miracles still to come. Our relationship is just as it was in the beginning; he keeps asking me what I have done to him. : ) Maybe it's the pheromones or the Jade Egg; I actually thought that this is impossible after forty."

- "Hello Ruta, I felt the need to share my experience after the practices about the rose in the womb and the pulsating shiny ball. I had this desire in me to have fulfilling sex already before the practices. I finally realized what it is ... "

- "It's just recently that I've experienced a different kind of sex and an amplitude of feelings: joy, happiness, longing, disappointment, suffering ... It felt like I have experienced all the possible feelings, and they made me complete. I wanted to cry and laugh at the same time. For me, this experience was a great gift from the universe, which came to me with the help of practices and my husband ... I never thought I could feel this much ‘down there’ ..."

In conclusion ...

Don't ignore it and think that it's only for the young women, for others, and not you ...

This is just your mind attempting to escape the unknown territory.

You decide. You can keep burying your head in the sand or pull it out, shake the sand away, and change the situation.

I'm delighted that more and more wise women stop talking nonsense and start taking care of their sexuality ...

More and more women stop playing the victim games (being ill, poor women whose men are inattentive males), and they take responsibility for their quality of life. You may be one of them.

Just start from where you are right now ...

Let us invite you to create a wonderful intimate life full of sensuality, touches, tenderness, and consciousness. This is the kind of sex that heals a woman and gives her man wings ...

Ruta.

p.s. You can find me on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rutabanioni/

 

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