As soon as women see such a headline, they become upset and start thinking: Why should we keep them? If they want to flee, let them go wherever they want …
Usually, such women neither know themselves nor men at all, but they want to scream out loud that they’re not going to try anything for men because they have been trying hard all their lives and are left unappreciated.
Unfortunately, women who think this way do not want to study the art of relationships. And this is really stupid.
We live in a world full of wonderful things, so it’s really stupid to prevent yourself from taking the path to happiness or a beautiful long-term relationship.
So, why is it worth it to get men interested?
What if a writer said “I don’t care if anyone’s going to read it. Let it be boring and monotonous …” when they wrote a book?
Or the film director said “What difference does it make? It’s nonsense to keep a viewer interested …”?
Unfortunately, the same rules apply to relationships with men …
Now think about how interested you are when reading a good book. It’s intriguing and engaging.
You really want to go to sleep, but you can’t stop reading. You really want to find out what’s on the next page!
To make someone this interested is truly an art, and any woman can learn this.
Therefore, it’s time to take a look at ourselves and ask:
Am I an interesting woman?
What do I know about men?
(Don’t you ever say you know them as the back of your hand, as we’re going to prove it to you that this is not true …)
A woman who wants to establish or maintain a good relationship with her husband should get him interested—there’s NO other way.
A woman who wants to establish or maintain a good relationship with her husband should get him interested—there’s NO other way.
I have been studying various relationships between men and women for almost 20 years. I have watched a lot of couples, listened to their stories in psychological group meetings, and I have fostered various types of relationships, which made me realize what is worth and not worth doing to men.
… and that’s why I’m willing to share my findings and psychological tricks that help seduce a man or bring back the interest in a relationship that has gone cold.
At the age of 15, I started working as a model and traveling the world. I lived in Los Angeles for 11 years and enjoyed the attention of men.
During the first thirty years of my life, I didn’t have any deep or sincere relationship with a man (but I got a daughter).
I have seduced a lot of old and young millionaires (I married one), and I can honestly say I know a lot of feminine tricks to get a man interested.
I really got a lot of attention from men. Unfortunately, I did not know what to do with it.
I felt so insecure that I would run away from them rather than develop something serious between us.
I then got tired of playing with men and longed for a real relationship.
Therefore, for the past 10 years, I have been learning about myself and about creating long-term relationships. (By the way, I want to add that I do not feel like an expert in this field. Even at this level, I still sometimes feel like I cannot do anything, and I feel weak, but we’ll talk about this another time …)
I decided to write this article because, in my opinion, every wise woman needs to understand what she wants and to responsibly build relationships.
There is nothing wrong with using our appearance to manipulate men from time to time. But it’s just the tip of the iceberg compared to what a woman can do …
Therefore, I’d like to talk about how to get a man really interested so that he would fall head over heels for you …
- SECRET: a man chooses a woman based on how he feels with her
Whatever we do to impress him with our looks, intellect, or other things, it is all worthless if a man won’t feel special when he’s with you.
It’s not the woman that is most important to him but how he feels when he’s with her. Most men simply rely on the feelings they experience when they are next to a woman.
Therefore, if you want to be an attractive woman and attract a man, you have to take a look at the atmosphere you’re creating around yourself.
For example, I think my secret is …
… taking care of my inner state: I perform feminine practice and meditate. That’s why I can understand myself and other people.
When a man gets close to me, I can ‘turn on’ my femininity (attention, tenderness, acceptance, admiration of him, faith in his strength, etc.).
When he’s with me, he feels strong and masculine.
I can include him in my space (any woman can learn this while using some practices and meditation), and he will feel much better with me than without me.
That’s why he will want to come back to me.
Of course, the man is attracted to our appearance and other outer qualities at first, but the feelings that he experiences when he’s with us make him stay and come back to us.
I just recently talked to a woman who told me that her husband had left her.
She could not figure out what had happened.
The woman said they were a great couple. Their neighbors and friends considered them an exemplary family …
However, her husband left her for another woman—because she was not paying attention to his needs; she only cared about creating a perfect picture, and the man was suffocating.
His needs were completely different. Unfortunately, they remained unheard and unnoticed …
After a couple of years, he met a woman that made him feel much better … this man was torn between his family and the new found love (which was a simple woman, but he felt much better with her than with his wife), and he finally left.
It perfectly illustrates the secret of the relationships described above …
It is important for a man, and for all of us—the atmosphere our partner is creating, in which we could bloom. And if we only stick to our schedule (we cook, we clean and organize leisure time), we tend to overlook the fact that the person next to us is underestimated as well as his needs, and he feels bad when he’s with us …
- SECRET: it is impossible to keep a man interested with two main manipulative tricks that almost all of us have learned from our mothers and grandmothers
Unfortunately, most of us try to keep our husband’s interest in two ways:
- We keep convincing men that they would be lost without us.
It somewhat sounds like this: “Well, who’s going to look at you? Who will take care of you? You will be lost without me …”
The negative programming is very strong—especially if it’s repeated all the time (constant dropping wears away a stone).
In a couple of years, a man becomes a pet poodle who is afraid of losing his mistress (clever men leave such women, but there are some who choose such lives themselves).
Unfortunately, a woman will never be happy with such a man, and she will never glow …
Therefore, if you’re using this technique at home, it’s time to stop it because you will hurt yourself.
- Another way is playing a victim (i.e., constantly showing your weakness and making another person feel guilty).
This negative programming sounds like this: “I cannot live without you. I would be lost without you …”
Or: “I was staying at home all evening because you didn’t tell me when you’re getting home, and I was worried. I am so sad when you’re not with me …”
Such women are not nice—and not cool.
And if something inside of you just told you that you’re using one of these techniques, stop it right now and start acting differently!
I had relied on the secrets to relationships that are as old as my grandmother until I finally learned that there are other ways to keep a man interested.
And only now, at 39, have I realized that there should be a woman next to a man and not a little girl manipulating him with guilt and weakness.
So, today, we’re building our dreams together. We’re creating common goals and visions. We’re improving our mutual communication and sex life.
We take great care of our inner state; we’re trying to intrigue each other, and we’re trying to find out what is important to us individually and as a couple, and we’re also learning to create an atmosphere for each other where we could grow wings.
Therefore, I suggest you take some time and get to know the atmosphere that you’re creating in your relationship. Take some time to realize your dreams and find some common goals with your partner.
After all, it’s not the children that connect the couple; it’s the common dreams and visions.
- SECRET: do not ever think that you know your husband as the back of your hand
Most women often say they know their husbands very well.
But in most cases, this is just one more limitation. In saying so, we lose the opportunity to get another person (who is better) and to reveal the deeper layers of a relationship between a man and a woman.
We almost do not know ourselves, so how can we know our partners this well?
It’s only natural to keep exploring each other for life and constantly finding new things.
I have noticed before that as soon as I find something new in myself, I look at my partner in a different way as well. As soon as I become more open and loving, he turns his new side to me. As soon as I finish playing the games of guilt, some new sides to our relationship open up …
I have no idea where we’ll be within a year, what emotional bonds we will create, and what we will achieve together as a couple, and this is really interesting to me …
- SECRET: three years later, your sexual life is just beginning
I get angry when I read women’s letters saying: “Well, a couple of years have passed; the attraction has disappeared … and there’s nothing I can do about it.”
Parents, psychologists, and French writers have greatly contributed to this, having published the book “Love lasts three years”, which has become a bestseller.
That is completely absurd.
After three years, when this on-again, off-again phase ends, we have this opportunity to really get to know and feel each other.
That was a real discovery for me. When we attended seminars, we realized that after a few years, this exhausting and emotional sex ends, but the couple gets the opportunity to create a deep and intimate relationship.
The thing is, we do not know how to do this.
I will reveal the techniques that we use in our sex life in the next article. I’m sure that while reading it, your heart will tell you it’s the absolute truth …
But to make it short …
It turns out that our men do not know how to make love to women; they do everything too fast.
And we, women, do not know how to tell them that it’s unpleasant for us, and we keep pretending.
However, it’s silly to expect men to give us pleasure if we do not know ourselves—what we like. (The practice “THE INTIMATE SECRET” can help you study your body.)
So, after three years, our body gets tired, the intimate area becomes insensitive because men are unable to awaken our intimate spots and wait until our body opens.
Of course, we often do not know what turns us on. That’s why we don’t want to have sex anymore.
As if our body would say: “Yes, I wanted love, pleasure, and to have a connection, but I failed to find something deep, so I’m better off doing nothing at all.”
Later on, the body starts to become ill (in an attempt to defend itself), and this is how we ruin our sex life (out of ignorance).
If you suffer from a variety of intimate problems (endometriosis, uterine fibroids, ovarian cysts, menstrual disorders, conception problems, etc.), Nephrite Egg for Chocolate Soul can help you here.
It’s just a MAGICAL secret to intimate health, beauty, and youth, which was revealed 5000 years ago, and you can make use of it as well.
I will reveal a couple of things in the next article, and I will invite women to start creating a joyful sex life.
I used to think that if the relationship gets cold, I have to stimulate them and put more external efforts. And I did: various sexy clothes, stimulating toys, ideas to bring the third person into bed, etc.
I am so glad that I finally realized that you shouldn’t look for love on the outside …
Have you ever thought that we, women, tend to wear masks in bed since we feel very vulnerable? But if we learned to really open up and to accept a man into our body with love and true longing, we would be much more interesting to men than wearing latex outfits or push-up bras.
There are great trainings nowadays where we can better learn about our body as well as our partner’s.
We must dare to be real and to talk to men gently and in a non-offensive way about what we like …
It is for us to choose.
Your sex life can be much better in 15 years than it was within the first years spent together.
So it’s possible to keep a man interested in many ways. That’s why we invite you to improve yourself, to reveal your femininity, and to learn about new areas of relationships.
Your task today is to start creating an atmosphere around yourself that would make you and the people around you feel good (this is the real charm of a woman).
We also encourage you to explore whether you’re using two manipulative techniques (“he will be lost without me” or “I will be lost without him”) and to get up on your feet while doing the practices, to discover the self-confident woman inside of you that any man can be proud of.
We also suggest that you get rid of the idea: I know my husband as the back of my hand. You can always go deeper and become interesting to yourself. You can discover a lot of interesting relationship aspects while exploring yourself …
Do not, in any way, believe that the attraction between a man and a woman disappears after a couple of years. It is only then that the real journey to the intimate world of a man and a woman begins. We just need to open it if we want to feel the magic between a man and a woman.
Change your attitude toward your body; get to know the truly exciting woman’s sexual world. You can get help from the sexual practices The Magic of Sexuality, The Intimate Secret, and The Magical Jade Egg or many articles on this topic on the Chocolate Soul website.
It doesn’t matter at all at what point you are right now … You can experience something wonderful within a week; just open yourself to this opportunity ..
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